QUOTE(texasgirlheather @ Feb 23 2007, 03:46 AM) [snapback]1554744[/snapback]
That's a pretty general statement (bolded). No one "trained" or abused me to worship. I come from a family of non-believers, read the Bible on my own, met Jesus on my own. In fact, if you could say anything I have for years put up with being clowned by family and friends because in almost 10 years of being a Christian, I have not stopped believing, but believe even more now. I'm not sure if you have a group of specific reference points of what Christians are to you, like people you know or something, but that certainly is not true in my case. I am not sure whom you are speaking for, nor how you come by this knowledge and how it came to include "people" in general (which sounds like everybody, without exception) rather than just the incidences that you yourself know of firsthand.
i think she was referring to some specific people, whilst trying to not draw attention to her past. as a good compassionate christian im sure you will respect that. and if you read previous posts youll get a better picture. Im glad your experience of christianity has been a pleasant one, but im sure you'll appreciate that it is not the same for everybody, to do so would be to generalise. Well done for sticking to your beliefs in adversity, but not all references have you in mind.
many find faith in hardship, others get pushed away. I think that finding love and peace of mind is important, If the lady has found some then let it be. waving the flag for christianity can be commendible, and insensitive sometimes.
im not a christian, but i know some lovely christian folk and some right idiots.
I practice zazen, and have done since a small child, and my girlfriend is Catholic. No problems arise from our diferences of opinion, and we talk often about doctrine, philosophy and such.
tell me did you restrict your search for god to the bible alone?....one of the fathers of christianity, St. Augustine of Hippo heard a voice inside telling him, 'Tele, lege' (pick up and read).....he read around and joined numerous faiths before he settled on his own (before christian doctrine was settled by Constantine's chairing of the councils, and Theodosius' censorship) He believes that god is to be found inside of us, and to approach him we must search through the caverns of our minds. (by this i mean that finding god is a result of internalising experience, and exploration of self- not that god only lives inside us) What he teaches us is that to limit meditation on the matter to one doctrine, and to accept it verbatim, without internalising it and measuring it against others, will lead us to only a partial understanding of God. Balance is essential, to adhere to one 'external' view too strongly implies that something is not right. Some people are driven to religion in reaction to trauma, or persecution, it gives the illusion of balance. Similarly some are driven away. The people i have met who have reached a balanced view, and relationship with god are rarely confined by 'doctrine' or percieved 'truth'.
sorry if this makes no sense, im tired and im orf to bed.
p.s the above ref to St Augustine stems from his book, The Confessions.....well worth a read. but dont stop there, try Boethius' Consolidation of Philosophy too....o o o o and and and well so many more, these are a good point to start tho.