QUOTE(Shadow_Hill @ Mar 9 2007, 09:57 AM) [snapback]1574928[/snapback]
Why is God a bachelor? And male? I know it's a pointless exercise to try to define God, but I can't help wondering why there is only one God.
If we were created by God... us and all the little beasties... then everything we do/feel must be understood by him. He's supposed to know everything after all. So if he understands the need to be part of a pair, then why is he single? Now I know it's unsafe to assume that the fact that God would understand wanting to be in a pair must equate to him experiencing the need to be in one. And I know I'm limited with my little human brain. But why would a single God want us to be in pairs?
I have no understanding of something which does not exist... so if loneliness didn't exist for God then how could he create us with the ability to feel it? I asked a Christian friend, and he said he believed loneliness was deliberately created to force us to find a mate, to procreate. But if procreation is the ultimate goal of man's loneliness then God could have created us with all the bits to do it alone.

And what about gay couples?
What my Christian friend did object to was my suggestion that God was lonely. He said I was attributing human emotions to God, which I shouldn't do, but that seemed a bit hypocritical because his God is apparently a jealous one.
I'm asking what others think because as I try to find my own path these questions come up, and whilst I don't expect to find answers I do hope to find possibilities and more questions to help me along. I am on the verge of possibly coming to the conclusion (eventually) that we have creators, rather than a creator... or that we are created from something made up of numerous parts.
Actually, in the ancient Sumerian religion on which Judaism was based, there was a great God in heaven, and two brother Gods with the titles of :Great Serpent Dragons" in charge of the sea and sky. And then theere was a lot of lesser Gods. They had Noah's Flood, the Garden of Eden, Tower of Bable and all the rest that Judaism retained. But instead of worshipping the three main Gods, the lumped their attributes into one great God in Heaven, Yaweh, and his assistant, still a great serpent dragon, who would become God's opponent when Christianity beame more Zoroastrian then Jewish. In these original stories, both Enlil Yaweh, and Enki Satan were very wild "dragons", Enki Satan getting drunk all the time, and Enlil Yahweh raping his sister and being sent to the underworld for a "time out".
The Hebrews like the Garden of Eden, with Enki the wise and talkative serpent dragon, and a human named Adam, Noah's ark, Tower of Babel stuff, but didn't like the idea that the Storm God dragon (Yahweh-Enlil) was the brother of the alcholoic Eden dragon (Satan-Enki), or the fact that Yahweh wasn't the highest God, or that he kept raping his sister.
So the Hebrews kept the best stories, no longer identified Satan Enki and Yaweh Enlil as brothers, got rid of Anu the high God of heaven (who apparently was never a dragon like the others), changed Yahweh from a storm dragon to a very prudish humanoid bachelor with no sister to rape. and Presto, you have the book of Genesis.
so you see, the original "Gods" that inspired the Book of Genesis were some pretty "wild and crazy guys" (er dragons), even if the Hebrews rewrote them into one fuddy duddy old guy (though they forgot to take out the part about him still spewing fire out of his mouth, smoke from his nostrils and "consuming" unfortunate priests who made an "improper" sacrifice .