Quite often it seems to me that "Christians" get lumped together as if they were all the same. Every time an article is posted (like the purity prom thing), the Christian bashers come out in force, and I find myself confronted with people that still bear a grudge over the crusades.
In this light, I'd like to make some observations and statements that might clarify some folks point of view or preconceived notions. Some of them are personal (meaning applying to me), and others are general.
Modern Christians are about as diverse a group as you can imagine. The days of the WASP are waning. Today Christians are all races, all mixes, and all backgrounds.
For every nut case "fundaMENTAList" as so many call them, there are probably twenty people out there with essentially Christian values quietly chuckling at the insanity generated by Purity Proms.
The point is, the bashers should pause and think about who they are bashing rather than pigeon holing people. The next Christian you bash MAY be a champion of gay-rights, stem cell research, right-to-die advocacy, or any one of a hundred causes that are traditionally "off limits" to Christians.
Many Christians see the Bible as a guide, not a literal translation. Many see the teachings of Jesus as a good way to live, and a map they can follow to better themselves. The ones that preach fire and brimstone are few and far between, but they are the ones that get the attention. Many modern Christians would share THEIR view of Christianity with you if you would but ask. And you would be surprised at how many are tolerant and kind, and believe the mistakes of the past should never be repeated, those made by religious leaders as well as others.
The Christians out there that would defend GENOCIDE, SLAVERY, THE CRUSADES and countless other horrible bits of history, both ancient and modern, are NOT the majority.
The Christians that take it upon themselves to DAMN people with HIV are NOT the majority.
The Christians who say things like "GOD HATES FAGS" are NOT the majority.
The Christians who call victims of incest and rape whores and sinners for getting an ABORTION are NOT the majority.
The Christians who believe we NEED a SECULAR government or the USA is hellbound are NOT the majority.
The Christians who say ALL women BELONG in the kitchen are NOT the majority.
The REAL majority believe Jesus had some fine ideas about how to treat his fellow man (or woman). The REAL majority believe honesty to ones self is as important to honesty toward others. The REAL majority would rather DIE than allow the LOUDER and more IGNORANT minority to cause YOU harm, or cause YOU not to be able to voice your opinions through violence or fear of harm.
Keep that in mind the next time you attack or mock a Christian. You may find a PSP for Jesus amusing, and that's fine. I'll die for your right to be amused, as would the REAL MAJORITY of Christians, and as have my friends and relatives (and probably some of yours if you bothered to ask).