Hello there folks
this is gary i got to tell you what happened to me.
maybe there are people out there who can connect with my experiance,
and had one themself?
well it all started about25 years ago.
i was asleep in bed when i had this dream i was in this car in the front passenger seat,
and we were going down a hill then the car crashed BANG! in to another car that was parked.

everything went black and i woke up with a start! wow i thought good job i woke up,
i must have died in the dream i thought and have heard of people having a heart attack in there sleep so was glad to wake up!.

anyway the dream stayed with me for a few days in the back of my mind as it was so real you know?
then a couple of weeks later i forgot it well almost,
you see i was getting in to a mates car when i had this funny feeling like somthing was saying to me dont get in the car somthings wrong then i kind of stopped at the car door,
and was taken aback to the dream i had a few weeks earler then it was as though i was standing next to my self at the car door struggling to get in to my body.

well by this time i was in spirit and was trying to get in to my body to make it go in to the back seat knowing from the drean that i would not go through the windscreen and die,well for a moment i won this battle of minds and breifely gained control enough to try the back door so as to get in .

but dam it was locked and my mate said why do you want to get in the back for get in the fromt.
by this time i was out of my body again pushed out by somthing and my body said to my mate ok and got in the front seat i was a passenger now and also a passenger to my body to.

anyway my body tried to put on the seat belt i forced it too
but dam!

the belt was broken.

2 mins later we crashed head on to a parked car head on i was thrown through the windowscreen head first! then every thing went black! pitch pich black and i kind of drifted in this space in the darkness without any worry or fear of pain man i was feeling happy because i did not like pain and this was a relief because for a second before the darkness i felt this awful pain all over!

but now i was in this black ness just drifting along i could think in my head and my mind was racing
thinking what had happened to me poor me i was only 15
and now i was dead
poor old me
then i was aware of this light ahead of me
it was like a tunnel
and was very very bright like a white light but very very bright i was glad
i thought i know this place but from where ?

then as i drew nearer to this opening this worm hole this opening i became aware of voices.

in my head talking with me having a conversation with me.
well we talked about what had happened to me and i told them in my mind that i wanted to go back i said i am ashamed to leave my mum and dad and all my brothers and sisters behind and that i felt stupid getting in a car with no seat belts in it.

well then i bacame aware of 3 people standing before me the one in the middle was taller and thay stood sholder to sholder before the opening before the bright light before this tunnel to god knows where.
i felt love from them and as though thay wanted to help me.

i could not see there features as that were pich black in front of this brillant white light i could see there shadows and there outline.

thay said to me gary go back then tell others what you have seen help them to understand what you now know tell then not to fear go back.

so i drifted back back to my body and opened my eyes i was alive but you know it then felt bad as there was so much pain i ran home in awful pain alone

when i got home my father took me straight to hospital where i spent the next six weeks and more recovering.

it left me partally sighted as the glass went in my eyes but i am still here to tell you what i now know .

and you know eversince then i have been changed inside it,s like i was reborn and now i have no fear or hate or worry as it died in the car and i left it behind and also i now read the tarot cards because iy left me able to communicate with the spirits and thay tell me things and sometimes take me to places to see the future for others so i can tell them of the good things to come.

well thats my story there is much more but thats enungh for now i dont want to do your head in lol

love and light
from gary age 40
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Welcome to the forum psychicgary I dont have any NDE's but this article might interest you Click Here

Okay, I have to ask. What was your religious background at the time of your NDE? I'm not so sure about most of your story, but if you could answer that then I might be more believeing.

at the time of the accident my belif was a bit of most things like christanity,spiritualism,cabbalah,and black magick or just plain magick.
ps i dont care if you belive me or not i am not looking for followers just making a statement about what happened to me.

Welcome aboard Gary , I really enjoyed reading your experience . I have a couple of questions for you .........

Gary,please tell us more about your experience. I really want to hear what you have come back to say...

When my son was 3 years old,he was playing outside and when i went out to check on him,he was just standing in the yard.He told me that he knew he wasn't supposed to play in the road,but he did anyway,he said he was hit by a car and then went into lengthy details about seeing a tunnel,etc. and he said Jesus told him it wasn't his time.He said he came back and was ok and wasn't in the road and wasn't hurt anymore.I often wonder about this...he was only 3,how could he make something like that up?

This happens to me quite a lot. I've fallen on my head I don't know how many times, and afterwards thinking to myself, "Wow, this was in a dream I had a few nights ago."
What I've learned to do is remember the bad dreams, mostly the beginning.
At first when I did this, I couldn't go through with changing what was happening, but somehow, after a long time, I was able to change what I did and keep me from getting hurt. You could try this yourself if it happens again.

Welcome aboard Gary (same name as my brother by the way!)

I’ve not had near death experiences, or anything like that. But I have had my life flash before me a few times. I use to think people were joking, or making it up, when they said they see their life flash past.

The first time was when I was 12, and I had just gone to live with my rich aunty, and while doing something or other, I knocked one of her very experiences bowls off the side. And I knew I was for it. As the bowl fell towards the floor, everything seemed to slow down, and images of things that had happened to me flashed past in my minds eye. It was a freaky experience. And when the bowl hit, and smashed, I seemed to come back to my senses, and life return to normal speed!

The second time was when I was 21, and a ladder that I was stood on the top run of, slid, and I fell 40 foot to a concrete patio, the ladder wrapper around my legs, then flipped me back up, and I landed down the bottom of an embankment. But as I was falling, time seemed to slow down, I remember every little detail, even now. And because it had been 9 years since this weird experience last happened to me, I had a little bit more of my life to watch shooting past. Lol.

And I know scientist try and explain all these things away, by saying the brain was shutting down - less oxygen - and all that! But unless you experience it, its very hard to explain!

One eye...

That is so interesting...you have been sucessful at changing the outcome of a future dream.You say you have to work with it.I know that must be hard.

I went swimming one night back in 1973 off a beach in Okinawa. I was with friends, and was actually drunk. I recall walking out over a coral reef (had my boonie boots on) and sudeenly I stepped off into water clearly over my head. It wasn't a full moon night, but the moon was a quarter full and it shone out over the sea. I remember looking up and seeing a light and then all went black. Woke up some unknown minutes later on the beach. Thing is... it was a Sunday morning. The party had been Saturday night and to this day I still don't know (or ever expect to learn) who pulled me outta the water and saved me. I didn't die (obviously) but that was close enough for me.

It was really wierd the first time it happened, because I have dejavu (or however you spell it) all the time. After figuring out that many people have it a lot, and that you usually can't control it. I hadn't heard or read about anyone actually controlling it.
It was sometime around when I was 10 I think, 3 or 4 years ago. I had a dream that I was sledding down a snowy hill filled with small and large trees, like behind my house. There's trees everywhere, and the farthest distance from one to another in all of them is around maybe 4 feet, very crowded.
Well, anyway, I was sledding in this dream, when suddenly I lost control and crashed into one tree after another, getting huge bruises. Then I slammed into a tree face on and everything went black.
After I woke up, I was pretty scared to see the new fallen snow on the ground, but after awhile, thought nothing of it. Then one day I decided to go sledding behind my house on the steep hill with all the trees. After around ten minutes, I decided one more time. So I climbed to the top of the hill and started going down. My sled then hit a stump and I was thrown from it. I kept running into trees and then relized it was my dream. Remembering the end of it, I grabbed onto a small branch and held on. I came out with several bruises, but was okay otherwise.
And yes, this might've been a differet thing than the dream, but it seemed very much alike. I dunno...

one eye...that's very interesting.I am going to have to think about that.Thank you for sharing.

No problem Babs. Always happy to try'n clear things up and such!

OneEye...

I think this was your future dream.I don't know what to think,now.

OneEye...

You changed the outcome of your dream.This is the first time that I have come across anyone who did that.Others have related a tale or two,but I wasn't really sold on their analysis of the situation.

hey one eve and bab r u guys freinds?

bye the way great stories!

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You haven't been 'banned' Gary, although you've been warned about registering several different nicks, which is generally frowned upon. Additionally, registering just to spam the forum with your own website is rude and inconsiderate. There is a correct way to promote your site, ask permission from the webmaster of this forum. Further violations will result in having your posting privileges suspended.

Magikman

ghost se'er 101...

...is that a serious question or are you 'funning' us?

Not that I know of...

*looks around suspiciously*

captain_karpet@yahoo.com I want to try to explain what happened to me was the same thing that happened to mr davidson. I was hit by lightning also, A little while later i was at a town yardsale and the last place we stoped was a amish ladies dress hanging in a tree. I remembered everything! I told everbody this was what the ladie was wearing who came out of the lightning, Only she had a bible with a pewter cross on it . Its so scary years later after every one made fun of me to see it also happened to someone else;now after the show nobody is laughing now! if anyone wants to know the whole story i be glad to tell it.

captain_ karpet...

Please tell your story.Are you talking about the tv show?

OneEye...and ghost se'er 101

It's funny,OneEye,but I was going to choose the (black and white) one eye avatar,but you already had it.

You can have the avatar. I found a new one offline. Just in case anyone's wondering, that's what my eye looks like... (though that's not it.)

I've had a few, but I seem to be able to avoid the worst. I have done many crazy things in my life yet I have never broken a bone, or suffered a concussion, even though I should have. I guess I'm lucky.

Hmmm... mine is on the next page: Near Death or out of body

I didn't see a light and the only voices I think I might have heard were almost inaudible muffles. The end-effect was the same though; it changed my life and released me from the fear of death.

I think I just sort of "orbed out" for a bit

Once I was at my grandpa's house and my brther and my cousin were throwing ninja stars and they threw one and it stuck in the shed and i went to go pull it out when my cousin threw one fromm the side and it ricochet off and started coming right at my face. All of the sudden it seemed like time slowed down and evey thing was slow except the rotation of the throwing star. It wasn't coming at my face fast. But it was spinning fast and i just ducked and the star went right over my head and landed on a rock behind me.

I've had close calls atleast a dozen times.
i still have all my limbs. somtimes i get shell shocked when
I remember a moment. I not joking. If fate ain't trying to kill me in skool then
on the streets or at my apartment. it all these near death seem pointless when
death can wipe you out in a heart beat. =(

I had a wierd experience before though it wasn't actually a near death experience:
A few weeks ago I was horse riding and I was riding this really hyper horse, I was jumping over jumps and suddenly the horse started galloping and literally flew over the jump. And I fell off over the fence, my helmet went flying off my head and I hit the ground so hard and everything went black.
Then I saw stars, you know, the pretty ones you look to at night. They were so bright and beautiful and I heard some voices and all I wanted to do was cry.
Suddenly I woke up with a shock in the hospital, my mom was crying when she saw I woke up. Turns out I got knocked out for two days and finally woke up, I had a bad concussion, my jaw hut a lot, my right arm was full of scars and I had a sprained thumb. I'm sooo happy and grateful I survived, but ever since I've been so scared.. and I don't know of what, I can't explain it, it's like I'm scared of leaving I don't how to say it. I hope someone undestands me a little.
Does anyone have any advice 4 me?
(ps: i only go on the net in the weekends so that's the only time I'll be able to look at ur replies, cheers)

I had a wierd experience before though it wasn't actually a near death experience:
A few weeks ago I was horse riding and I was riding this really hyper horse, I was jumping over jumps and suddenly the horse started galloping and literally flew over the jump. And I fell off over the fence, my helmet went flying off my head and I hit the ground so hard and everything went black.
Then I saw stars, you know, the pretty ones you look to at night. They were so bright and beautiful and I heard some voices and all I wanted to do was cry.
Suddenly I woke up with a shock in the hospital, my mom was crying when she saw I woke up. Turns out I got knocked out for two days and finally woke up, I had a bad concussion, my jaw hurt a lot, my right arm was full of scars and I had a sprained thumb. I'm sooo happy and grateful I survived, but ever since I've been so scared.. and I don't know of what, I can't explain it, it's like I'm scared of leaving I don't how to say it. I hope someone undestands me a little.
Does anyone have any advice 4 me?
(ps: i only go on the net in the weekends so that's the only time I'll be able to look at ur replies, cheers)

Hi Malice

I love horses and I used to show and jump. Riding can be dangerous. You must use the proper headgear so that it doesn't fly off in an accident...you know, the strapped down, around the head and chin type? Maybe you had this....sounds like a very bad accident and you are lucky to be alive! I knew a few people in my horse world that were killed.

I think you are having these feelings of leaving because of your accident.You may feel that you might be leaving us if you continue to ride; your subconscious may be trying to tell you something. Only you can make the decision to ride again.

If you want to ride again, get back on a horse as soon as possible...you know that old saying, "Get back on a horse right away or you may never ride again".

Good Luck!

Hey Babs,
Thanks for your advice, it was really nice of you to write back so quick .
Well I started riding again last wednesday, but I don't think I'm going back to my riding school where I fell off that horse. I'm scared shitless of riding any of the horses there again, but anywhere else is fine though .. Now I fel like a coward for not going back , hmm. I probably am one..
Anywayz, it's not really a feeling that I get that I'm scared to ride but more of a feeling that like I'm scared I'm gonna die any minute.. that's seriously not normal is it?

You know you don't have to jump...you can perfect your work on the flat. There are many riding styles and different types of horses...you can stay in riding. I took up dressage, which is the high school of riding; I loved it, although we jumped, too.

You sound as if you are still learning. Be very careful and get a good teacher. You'll want a cold-blooded horse to learn on...nothing hot-blooded (thoroughbred) or 'skittish and hyper'. If you aren't an experienced rider you can't handle these horses and you'll get hurt.

The feeling about leaving or dying is from the accident, I think...but you know if it persists, something could be in your future similar to a "leaving". Perhaps a re-location_ travel maybe.. or a personal transformation (inner)...anyway, some sort of major change.

You are not a coward; horses are dangerous. You must learn how to ride. I went to several riding schools and ended up with the best teacher in my part of the country...an old calvary man. I can assure you he didn't babysit!

My schooling was gruelling.

We couldn't drink or party...you had to be a soldier and stay in condition. This man was a sadist about riding, but I loved it. This is where I really learned to ride; all the other schools baby-sat ...and you know where that can get you....'HURT'!

I rode for 25 years and loved every minute of it...it was my passion.

I had a NDE (or so im told!)When I was little my Dad put a tub of pain killers on top of a shelf.He told me not to touch they were not sweets.Me being me,I decided to get up there and get them down and eat them.I was rushed to hospital where I had my stomach pumped.
Whilst the doctor was doing this my heart stopped beating.The doctor got it going again,but when I came round I was hysterical.The nurse got my parents in and I was able to tell them and the doctor EVERYTHING they did to me
I was about 4 years old when this happened and there was no way of me knowing the stuff doctors do,but I was looking down from the ceiling watching them bringing me back to life.My parents told me that I told them that when I was on the ceiling that I was scared of falling and hurting the doctor cause he was right
under me. :huh:Don't tell people bout it as they tend to give you a funny look or totally disbelieve you.Lots has happened to me and its hard to start to talk bout it,this was really hard but i've done it now.
Cheers Freddy xx

freddy....good for you, you got it out. "Lots has happened to you"....what else? Any psychic sense?

Cheers Babs,dont know bout psychic sense.I had few bad experiences because of my ex husband doing a ouija board .Because people have been horrible to me when i've told them bout things that have happened in the past I've just supressed things a lot and am not even sure if I believe in the things that have happened to me.People can be so evil when they do not understand things :cry:Maybe I will try to put my experiences up another time.That was hard enough,so have my other threads.
Cheers Freddy xx