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Just wondering. You're gay and love jesus. You decide to attend church with your lover, holding hands on Easter Sunday as you walk together up the church steps.
But the god awaiting inside that dark doorway, amid all the organ music, the candles flames, the great altar of worship and deific reverence, says you're an abomination. Not to mention the whispers behind your back, as those calling themselves "christ like" affirm you're an abomination because of what they say just low enough not to make a scene, but loud enough for your ears to hear as you walk by.
You're gay, inside. Why does anyone privileged and straight imagine that's something that can be tolerated just as long as it doesn't show!?
Your religion calls you an abomination. Leave it and go find one that loves gays.
Then tell me how it is a person that is called in their heart to serve god, by any name, needs to change who they are just to please the people that claim to know god disapproves their existence, because other people said god said so in a book?
Name one.
here is what people miss all the time... i'm not saying God doesn't love these people... and i'm not saying that they shouldn't believe... my point is this... if they believe in the God that they are going to worship, they obviously believe in whatever holy book that whatever religion they believe in follows... as you stated, i can't think of one that approves of homosexuality... if the rule is against that book... why go in front of those people and flaunt it in their face?
i would say the same exact thing to the cleptomaniac... don't drive to church in a stolen car or wear a stolen suit and then tell people that it's stolen... or the adulteress... don't show up to church with someone else's wife/husband...
if you feel the need to attend church, by all means, go and participate... but is it too much to ask for 2 or 3 hours worth of respect to what that religion believes in? even if you yourself don't agree?
there were plenty of times in school that we were being taught evolution... i would just sit and listen because i personally didn't believe it... i didn't try to stop it from being taught... i didn't say a word until the teacher asked me a question pertaining to it... i told him that i didn't agree with evolution, so i wasn't going to answer the question... he respected my decision because he was an ex priest that left the church... but he turned and asked the class... "how many of you don't believe in evolution" and everybody except 2 people raised their hands...
my point being... we didn't make a scene... we didn't hold a giant protest... we just let him teach and allowed him to present his point of view since it was a psychology class that we all wanted to take... i'm not sure if they still do it... but we got college and highschool credit for that class back then...
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This is that fundamentalist spirit I was talking about in PM with someone just recently. They say I harp to much on the history of christianity and that it gets old. But the spirit that made bloody history then, is the spirit that attempts to make new laws now. Laws that declare equality isn't to be permitted if you're gay or bisexual in America, because you, being gay, are an abomination in the eyes of your maker. People like to disavow the history because they cant face the past that is what the contemporary institution is erected on today, and that past, that bloody example of intolerance, is what propelled a faith to survive to today. It simply murdered it's competition, in gods name. Abdicating responsibility that mortal hands put lives to death, by claiming it was gods will and that somehow cleanses mortal tools of destruction from the responsibility.
just because someone makes a claim... doesn't mean that it's true...
furthermore... people who don't understand the first thing about the Bible... still obsess over the commandments... not just the first 10 but all of them...
what a true Christian believes is that Jesus offers forgiveness to anyone that wants it... without exception... because He shed his blood, we are free to ask forgiveness no matter what it is we have done... in my OPINION homosexuality is wrong... but at the same time... it's no worse than lying, stealing, killings, etc...
they are all equal sins in God's eyes... according to the New Testament...
and again... if a homosexual chooses to worship a certain God... and wants to go to a place of worship that believes in their holy book... then respect what they believe and just don't flaunt it in front of them... if they want to continue when they get back home... that's between them and God...
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Why change religious laws because someone doesn't like them?! Fascinating ignorance that. If those laws weren't changed I could still own your mother. Because slavery is sanctioned in the christian religion. I could do all manner of things, like be a bigot because god says it's OK. They say religion is suppose to compel people to a sense of community, but I know religious history proves that's a lie. Religion is about dominion. Control of the mind first, that abdicates reason and accepts myth as truth so much so that one lives their life by the rules that myth set's forth. Because they believe it's all for something after living, that they do today what they do to others in it's name. That's why we see christians holding their bibles as they spit on grieving family and friends of fallen soldiers, trying to make their way to a funeral for that last goodbye. Amid signs reading god hates fag*, and the USA. They hold those bibles because it is from there they get their strength to be sub-human, hateful, bigoted and vile. Because they take it at it's word they're doing gods will being hateful, bigots and vile.
actually slavery wasn't sanctioned as you are probably thinking of it... slavery was used as a way for a person to pay a debt... it had a maximum of 6 years or service and they were to be treated a certain way. they were to be taken care of. and people could enter optional slavery in exchange for food and a place to stay... and sometimes even get paid...
you can be a bigot without God... you could be a bigot that is against religion... same thing... your still discriminating against a specific group...
the same could be said about people who believe in evolution... it abdicates reason and accepts myth as truth... because there isn't a fossil record to support the claim... but for some reason... people think that if they believe it... everyone else is ignorant for not believing the same...
and you said that "Christians hold their Bibles as they spit..."
so what about the Christian soldiers that died... are you calling them bigots? what about their christian families... are they bigots? what about all the christians who aren't doing what you accused the whole group of doing? are they bigots? you are trying to lump a whole group together based on the actions of a very few... which makes you a BIGOT... plain and simple...
i could make the argument that some of the greatest attrocities were committed by people who didn't believe in God... Hitler for example... it is well documented that he involved himself in the occult and Ouija Boards... which no real believer in Christ would do... as he sometimes CLAIMED to be... so would it be fair for me to say that anyone who ever touched a ouija board or engaged in occultic practice wants to kill millions of innocent people? is it fair to say that they get their power to be sub-human, bigoted and vile from their lack of belief in God? based on your statements, i can only conclude that you are yourself the same type of person that you accuse others of being... because you are doing the same thing... you spit on their beliefs just like you said they spit on the families of other becaue of what they believe...
i personally think the war was wrong... but i also don't care what the soldiers or families say about it... i feel, if you don't want to go to war... don't join the military... if you are willing to die for your country... more power to you... it just means that i don't have to... i don't have anything against the soldiers that went to war... and i wasn't out there with my Bible... as you have accused ALL Christians of doing...
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When a religion compels separatism , when activists use it as a marker to petition the legislative branch of a government to discriminate by law, in it's name, against real people, for the sake of myth, religion has a problem. Move on? Change your faith because some people interpret your ideal of god into a hateful separatist, bigot in heaven? How arrogant! How small minded, how amazingly unrealistic and yet how fitting. Change your religion because your religion is not fitting your ideal of god. How about people seeing god as better than being a bigot? How about people changing their mind that a creator of all that exists makes something to hate? And commands it's people to prove that by thought and deed, in his stead!?
lol... your statement contridicts itself... as i've said before... the Bible views homosexuality as a sin... so if that's the case... how can that be one's "ideal God if you engage in the lifestyle of homosexuality?" the same can be said for the Jewish religion and the Muslim religion...
but why should we change our views because someone doesn't want to accept them? should we change our laws to be accepting to the thief that doesn't want to give up stealing? or the killer who wants to continue murdering people? or any other group that we consider to be practicing sinners who don't agree with our views... would you be saying the same thing if a child molestor thought we should change?
as i stated before... those are all sins on the same level according to the NT... no sin is worse than another... so are we still bigots if a rapist doesn't like the part about rape being bad... and we refuse to change it?
because that also falls under discrimination whether you like it or not... and if you don't think everyone should change for those groups... that would also make you a bigot... but society has their view on what's acceptable and what's not... and regardless of what you believe... religion plays a huge role in society...
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Instead of changing one's religion because in doing so they admit there are aspects they can not morally support, how about changing the mind that god isn't immoral, as many religions would imply!? How about finding god in one's heart, and not on the page, so there's no excuse to be immoral because the book expects it of you, in the name of god. If I were a believer, I would take pride in holding faith in a god power that wasn't as depraved as humanity, if I first believed it was worthy of being worshiped as a higher power than that which asks me not to love my neighbor as myself, as long as they're gay, of another race, or women. Yes, if everyone took religious admonitions to heart today, never having changed what is taught from that ancient historic fiction, faith today would make for a whole different world. One that I imagine would evoke many prayers for salvation from, than praise to, that spirit that compels the condition.
if what you said above was true... then that person would not want to be a Christian in the first place... Christianity is based on the Bible... and if you don't agree with the book... don't worship that God or follow the religion... plain and simple...
i wouldn't go to a gay bar and say that promoting homosexuality is wrong... and because i don't like it... they should change it...
by your standards they would be bigots by not complying...
the point being... if you don't agree with something... don't participate... it's that simple... i GUARANTEE that this would have been a totally different argument if a Christian, Jew, or Muslim went to a satanist meeting and pointed out that they wanted to join but didn't like their practice of discriminating against people who follow God... but your a bigot and would probably blame the Christian, Jew, or Muslim for going...