Hello.
My name is Tiesha.
I am only 16,
so all these problem's are wierd to have.
I live in South Carolina and I have this wierd feeling that all i'm getting here is negative energy.
I don't know how to explain it.
It's like I try to be happy here but there's something here that's not letting that happen....
I went to a psychic and she told me that i try to be happy but it never works out
because there's a block in my aura and there's negative energy that follows me.
She said i'll never be happy until I get that energy away from me.
She also told me that all the men in my life leave me or will leave me.
Which is kinda scary because I actually do want healthy relationships with guys.
But that's really not my focus. My focus is for me to be happy.
And no guy can do that.
But uhm can a psychic tell me something about maybe my past lives that may have an affect on this life.
Or just clue me into why I feel this way.

Btw: My parents got me checked out to see if I was clinically depressed...im not.

Thank you very much in advance,
Tiesha

Hello Tiesha,
Welcome to the forum!

Well... a lot of your sadness/unease may come from your age. (No offense meant by this.) Teenage years can be very hard and there is a lot going on during the time of life that you are living right now. I do remember those years as when a day was like a month, a month a year and a year *sighs* forever. Being bored to tears and scared to pieces of wondering what the heck I was going to do with my life once I got out of high school.

I like the statements where you said that your parents took you to see if you are clinically depressed and that you already know that you have to find happiness within yourself and not another person. Perhaps the psychic that you went to meant well but did she give you any idea of how you were supposed to get rid of the 'negative energy'? Or were you supposed to go back and see them?
Try to find it within yourself, meditate/pray get a hobby. Don't worry so much! LOL Places can be a drain on a person but if you find your inner balance you'll find that is less likely to happen.

Warm regards.
Mabon.

You sound like a mixed up 16 yr old kid. Get involved in sports.........go to the library and read books.....and then start traveling around the world .............Peace corp.


Or get a priest.

IF , and I say IF you believe even a tiny bit that there is a darkness around you, imagine yourself in a white light, that it surrounds you. Light chases away the darkness. I hope this helps.

And welcome to the board

Hi, well i would not take to much stock off what so called "phsychics" tell you in my opinion most off them are just out to make a quick buck.I would also agree with what the other people wrote about teenage years being hard, but i reckon the best thing you can do is keep your chin up and keep smilling. I know its an old saying but it normaly works for me, just think there is always someone worse off then you just try to focus on the positives in your life and keep and you will be sound as a pound !

Hey Tiesha,

To break it down- Forget everything that psychic told you- Pretend you never had that conversation. Start over.

Mabon was absolutely right in her advice to you! These negative feelings are very normal for teens, some experience worse than others- but everyone is different, because we are different people. Remember it will pass in time.

Keep that head up. and smile.

Sunni

Well, it could be a normal teenage hormonal thing, and it could not be. I remember a couple years ago I thought I had some kind of curse from dealing with one too many Ouija boards and the only way I got rid of it was to a: stop using the board, and b: get into some other activities - I was really into theatre. I no longer think I was cursed or anything like that but that isn't to say everyone just imagines those sorts of things. Either way, you can get rid of that negative energy, whatever it is, by occupying your time with things you enjoy.

Hi Tiesha,

Welcome to UM.

I like what Mabon said about Inner Balance. I also think the psychic you spoke with gave you a clue on how to resolve this issue. The comment about the men in your life leaving you or "will leave you", along with your response about "not wanting a healthy relationships with guys", when put together does provide some insight.

Its my view that your focus to be happy has a block because you are conflicted. Somewhere in your subconscious the "not wanting healthy relationships with guys" has blocked your focused wish for happyness. True happyness is Balance. You are young and I can appreciate your concerns. Confidence in yourself does come with PRATICE. BTW your inner work with energy is marvelous to say the least. So I would say trust in yourself when it comes to healthy relationships. Then consider how you want to expand your thinking so that you can embrace all of you wishes.

I know this is a bit deep, however your intentions are the factors that set the energy focus, not you stated wishes or thoughts per say. So balance your intent. I hope this helps.

John

You know, It really frickin pisses me off when you hear about so called psychics telling someone they are surrounded by negative energy or spirit and then do nothing to actually help the problem

IMO if one is receptive/sensitive enough to detect these things and they're making a living from it, then they should be bloody well developed and skilled enough to also try and remove/heal/help such problems. This one sounds like another wannabe and unfortunately there's many of them out there.

Anyway, rant over, I agree with what's been already said, teenage years are not always emotionally easy but finding something positive that you can throw your time and energy into that you love doing can be very benefiting in lots of ways


If you still feel there's something more to it than that, and that you're sensitive to negitive energies around you in your day to day life then I recommend these meditation excerisies. These are fairly basic principles for anyone receptive/sensitive for learning how to ground, shield and centre your energy from others...

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Ticks me off too--

Maybe it was just me, but I got the impression this psychic told her what her specific problem was with guys, for example -- (imo, sounded more like the Psychic suggested (guessed) a particular problem and stuck with it--- convincing Tiesha on faith of Psychic's all knowing sense) & did this without helping Tiesha resolve the so called problem at hand to make it worse...left her hanging. That's what I got from it. Thats enough to give someone a complex, for real.

Yea 'left her hanging' is a good way of putting it Sunny

Is it any particular place or all the time?....

a family omen?

can the one you saw look at your past incarnations? ....unsure, depends on the "psychic".......AND even a short stop at the gym helps me blow off a ton of negative energy........B

Hey Gurl... youre too young to be depending upon psychics and the jazz... Look within yourself and you shall find the light.. every single ray of it that you need! Take care!

Seems like you already know the answer. Don't be scared. Sounds like you will still have healthy relationships but may not find Mr. Right any time soon. Since you know guys can't make you happy, stayed focused on keeping yourself happy. Then one day you will find that guy that you will want to share your happiness and even your sadness and everything else deep inside you that would have scared the hell out of all those previous guys but Mr. Right will love you for it.