QUOTE(Paranoid Android @ May 29 2007, 08:02 PM) [snapback]1698603[/snapback]
I think it would be good if we could all love others, even those that may not deserve it. We do not need to accept the way a person behaves (in the case of a pedophile, for example), in order to love them. When it comes right down to it, a pedophile or rapist is a sinner, just as I am. I am in the same boat as them, and it would be hypocritcal of me to not love them because I consider them less than I do myself. There is a similar case in the Bible where a Pharisee is praying in public and he is boasting about how good he is, and next to him is a poor sinner. The Pharisee prays "Thank God that I am not like this man, because I am a Pharisee and so much superior to him in every way" (paraphrased passage, I don't have time to get a reference). If I were to not love others, a pedophile for example, I would basically be saying that I am better than him or her, and thus condemn myself with my own words, as being the same as the Pharisee who thought himself better than the poor man.
Of course, being human I may not always succeed in this task. I may at times fail in my task to love my neighbour (which includes all neighbours, not just those who have not been convicted of heinous crimes), at which I would humbly ask God to help me to love them in the future. It is not easy, and as I have mentioned I may not always succeed at this, but it is part of what it is to be Christian, and my job to try.
Regards, PA
I will say I certainly respect your right and your faith to love your neighbor, as your self, in the name of the christ and god that compel such compassion.
I remember the Menahoth and passages 43b-44a. A Jewish man is obligated to say the following prayer every day: Thank you God for not making me a gentile, a woman or a slave. And I think what that faith means for women, gentiles or slaves for that matter, in the eyes of one that prays in such a way, to the creator they believe made everyone.
And while faith is personal, religious institution is divisive, by nature. So I don't accept that I am obligated to love a pedophile for being a fellow human being first, just like myself. I believe, if I love them for being human, I then enable their deviant behavior against children. The same goes for rapists, murderers, etc...
As an Atheist I accept no god exists, and as such no man made admonition in it's name applies to my world, as I live my life in it. I've read the bible and I don't believe it logical to believe it possible to love everyone, so as to please god, when god that is said to be so pleased by such compliance to that emotion for all people, does not love everyone. Nor does he express in his admonitions that loving everyone is the creed of the believer in him. So while the believer may love everyone, so as to not disgrace their own capacity to be loved, I believe loving a pedophile that is first and always a fellow human being, is loving disease and the rapist of children. And I love love far to much, to ever insult it by giving it to someone that loves to rape children. I love love far to much to ever give it to someone that loves to use their body as a weapon against women, so I do not and never shall love a rapist. And I do not believe, in holding this personal creed, that it in any way slights who I am as a lovable human being. I believe rather it declares a standard that says I have a moral obligation not to love those that do not know what love is. And just because they're human doesn't mean that they are deserving of respect, after they trespass and violate what should be a given respect for the innocence of a child, or the sanctity of a womans body. I believe if I love everyone, I water down what love means, and instead make it a blanket application for everyone that exists. And I don't believe that everyone that exists would even know what love is, so as to appreciate it when it is given, when they prove they don't even know what love means, as they take their hands and lay them on a child or a woman, so as to rape them. Or on a weapon so as to take the life, with the potential to love for many years to come. I don't believe love is given away so cheaply. And while I do not believe in god, I am of the opinion that god does not prove he loves everyone either. So living up to pleasing that, which itself is not capable of the passion for everyone regardless, as I see it, is not a matter of holding faith in a god that does not rule by example, in that respect. So then, to declare one must love everyone, in the name of god, is in effect teaching god what it needs to learn about itself. And I didn't think that was the responsibility of those that believe in that supreme power, which they serve as sinful seed of it's creation.