"God isn't a puppet master."
"God doesn't want to take away peoples' free will."
These are but a couple of the myriad of explanations theists will offer for the seeming distance of God from the majority of people. The argument is as such: "If God were to prove he exists, you would have to choose him and it wouldn't be free will. God doesn't program robots and he isn't a puppet master, he wants you to have a choice."
This argument is horribly flawed, given the composition of the human mind and emotions and decisions that stem from it, as well as some simple logical thinking.
We live in a world of robots
One of the biggest problems with these types of arguments are that humans are, in fact, very robot-like and very much programmed. Sure, it may not be with silicon chips and transistors and whatnot, but we are all slaves to our humanity. The choices you make define your personality and what causes you to make those choices is, for the most part, in your brain chemistry.
For one, there's our basic survival instincts.
-You know that when you're hungry that you should eat.
-You know when you feel pain or discomfort that you should do something to heal the affected area.
-You feel fear which helps you avoid or be cautious of dangerous situations.
-You have empathy which causes you to work well with other humans for a common goal.
-You have memory so you can learn from your past experiences and understand your current situation better.
All of these are part of the human programming. They're hard-wired into your brain to keep you alive, and your thoughts and decisions are affected by them.
But brain composition decides much more specific things than that... It decides your intelligence, your abilities to perform in every aspect of life, your talents, your weaknesses, your susceptibility to emotional disorders, and so on. There is a specific brain composition that will choose atheism every time and there is a specific brain composition which will choose theism every time.
To give a better example, humans are like a self-playing piano which has a computer system that allows it to generate random sequences of notes. There are small variables that we can see but in the end it is a very small margin of change, most of what it is is set in stone.
The fact is that if you're designing something in the first place, you're already making robots or playing puppet master. Does God ask animals to turn to him? No, because they aren't intelligent enough to do so, they don't have the right fundamental programming! God can only ask smart enough creatures to follow him... and to make those creatures smart, he has to program his robots a bit.
And of course, on this same topic, there's the simple fact that overwhelming incentive to choose one thing is not the removal of choice. The only way you can force someone to do something is by completely removing any other option. And why would any God be concerned about free will if it were the case that proof would be like forcing people? Pretty much every modern religious book makes some sort of threat for if you do not believe. If the Gods are so concerned about keeping things free of uneven odds or biased choices, then why do their holy books not reciprocate that?
On another note, belief is a large factor, and nobody will choose to follow something which doesn't exist in their minds. As an example, someone who is more susceptible to a disorder like psychopathy will be less susceptible to belief in the paranormal, including God. Since the term God basically describes an all powerful being, we should be able to assume that he could remove advantages and disadvantages such as these if he existed and wanted a fair choice for all.
I know we'll never see an end to this argument, but I'd simply like to point out that it's no excuse for the large lack of evidence of God, and it's quite simply ridiculous.
(And this argument is of course, talking under the hypothetical situation that God actually does exist.)
You so silly.