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chaostrom
Okay, so what this is about is, a friend of mine, who's Christian, wants to help me to discover the truth and come back on to the true path. However, not being one for questioning, she's referred me to her pastor, who is more than a match for me, especially since I have difficulty putting my thoughts into words. Not to mention my patchy memory tongue.gif

So I'm asking for a little help to make my points. Keep in mind though, this isn't about attacking Christianity. I want to get across to him why I don't believe in Christianity, many reasons which I have gathered on these forums.

This was my first question:
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All right, here's one.

Christianity believes god was before all things, so did god create evil, or was evil with him from the beginning?

Satan commited the first sin of pride, but for him to commit a sin, evil has to exist already, a sin being an act of evil.

If god created evil, he's not as good as people like to believe. If evil was with god from the beginning, the bible is false.


The reply I got was this:
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Your friend’s questions are thoughtful questions. They are questions that have been asked by many people who are astute enough in their thinking to pose them. The answers demand thinking that is at least as deep and careful as that which produced the questions.

First, no, God did not create evil. Evil is not a personal entity, nor is it a force or an object. Evil is an abstraction. One image that has served to create much confusion is the Taoist (and surfer) symbol of the ying and yang, where the black and white portions of the circle are equal and in balance. Evil is not a positive quantity of anything; instead it is the absence of good. God is good by His very nature. Sin is not the opposite of God’s goodness but instead the absence of it. The Greek word aJmartiva [pronounced hamartia] literally means “to miss the mark.” Missing the mark can, of course, involve deliberately shooting an arrow in the opposite direction. But that is not necessary for one to miss the mark. The NT says that all unrighteousness is sin. Sin is anything that deviates in the slightest from the righteousness that is characteristic of God’s goodness.

There are two phenomena that serve as apt illustrations, I think: cold is not a quantity of any sort (although we tend to try to measure it as such). Instead, it is merely the absence of heat. And similarly darkness is not a force of any kind; it is merely the absence of light. Light, even the small amount of light from a little candle, displaces even the darkest space. But darkness cannot overcome any source of light.

Secondly, since God has always existed it is natural for many to imagine that He must somehow be responsible for the existence of evil, especially since the Bible teaches that God is both omniscient and omnipotent. But God devised His creation so as to facilitate the greatest possible good and virtue. For that reason He endowed us with the ability to think, to reason, to feel, and to make free moral choices. The modern era has become well acquainted with mechanization, and with computers in particular. A good computer design is one that functions perfectly, without variation, and always to the will of its designer/operator. But a computer is unable to feel, appreciate, judge, or give such things as love, friendship, loyalty, mercy, kindness, trust (i.e. faith), etc. God prizes these; and so do we when we are thinking clearly. Would the world be a better place if people were incapable of sinning? We would be inclined to think so . . . until we should realize that to be deprived of our personal volition would reduce us to being nothing more than fleshly computer. When any real choice exists there must necessarily be the possibility of the one to whom the choice is presented making the wrong choice. Love or friendship or loyalty, etc. would have no value whatsoever if there existed no other possibilities! So when Satan chose to exalt himself and when Adam chose to defy God’s commandment, they did so of their own volition, not because they were preprogrammed to do so. So consequently the burden for sin belongs to us, not to God!

Thirdly, if one is inclined to doubt God’s goodness he/she ought to reflect deeply on what He has done to redeem us and to restore us to a right relationship with Himself and with one another. He owes us nothing! There is no necessary reason why He should care about us. Generally if we plant a vine or some vegetable or fruit plant and it becomes diseased or fails to produce we simply pluck it up or leave it alone to die. We might begin with another and forget about the first one. But God, realizing the frailty of our natures, was merciful toward us. He, for whatever reason, loves us; and so He undertook to save us from the fate that was the natural, logical consequence of our rebellion (and make no mistake, we have all rebelled against Him as some point or points!). To give His only begotten Son to suffer in our place is not an abstraction: it is the most concrete expression of love and grace that anyone has ever seen or heard. Never would any human imagination have devised such a plan of redemption.

There is much more that could, and perhaps should, be said about your friend’s questions. But perhaps these brief arguments might provoke him to think deeply about how he has perceived the world in which we all find ourselves. Let me know if I can be of any further help.

Lord bless!

Pastor John


Formidable intellect, this man has. I sent back this reply:
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I like your reply, well thought out. Better than what I was expecting. Just one thing I don't agree on. That cold is the absence of heat. Heat is energy given off by the movement of particles, herefore hot and cold only has meaning comparatively, such as tall and short, big and small, etc. For instance, a tall man would be tall in comparison to other humans, but besides a giraffe the man becomes "short". Light and dark, as with the candle example, only makes sense if both exist. Should one or the other not exist, we wouldn't have concepts for light and dark. Similarly, good and evil could only be if both exist, like the Taoist yin/yang symbol you mentioned.

I think that calls for a revised answer on your part. Besides, Isaiah 45:7 can be translated to say that god creates calamities/evil. There are people that go along with either. Anyway, thanks for your answer.


And received this response:
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I'm happy to know that you are interested enough to try to think through what appears to be a great dilemma. I'll try my best to help you work toward some solutions.

I will contend that evil in the abstraction is the absence or deprivation of goodness. It is for that reason that we recognize that all that is needed for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing. Heat, as you have noted, is the effect given off by the movement of particles. Absolute zero, by contrast is when there is no molecular movement at all. Movement of any kind must be initiated by something or someone. Therefore, heat is the product of a positive influence that is necessary to overcome inertia, whereas cold is simply the state that exists where there is none. Light can dispel darkness; but darkness cannot quench even the smallest light. Now, these are philosophical arguments, which almost always must be construed in terms of analogies. And, when it comes to what I call "ultimate realities" analogies often tend to break down. When we speak or think of God, heaven, eternity, et al, we are addressing subjects to which there is no corresponding phenomenon in our direct experience. That's why the Bible is necessary. Apart from God's having revealed what we could not otherwise know, we could discover nothing about such matters with any certainty.

As for the passage to which you referred, Isaiah 45:7, it needs to be understood that the Hebrew word [transliterated into English ra] has a rather broad range of meanings. That is the case with many Hebrew words, since Classical Hebrew had such a small working vocabulary. Ra generally denotes something that is unpleasant, inferior, of bad quality, or disagreeable. It can even describe a person who is depressed or in a foul mood. That is why translators and commentators are not entirely agreed as to the precise meaning of Isaiah 45:7 and certain other passages. The context of the passage is proclaiming God's sovereignty over all things, to create circumstances as He wills to do. And, by the way, something that may grate against our personalities is that He is God, and we are not. To fear the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; that is to acknowledge just who He is.

Fearing the Lord, ie to regard Him with respect and reverence, might seem an onerous task were it not for some things that we can and should know and believe about God. One of my favorite verses in the OT is Nahum 1:7. It reads: "The LORD is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; and He knows those who trust in Him." All this business about His being omniscient, omnipotent, eternally self-existing, etc. is not much comfort if we are not aware that He is good. Goodness, which has its manifestation is such expressions as righteous judgment, mercy, etc. is one of what we speak of as God's "essential attributes," that is to say that they are aspects of His very essence. With that in mind, when we contemplate evil in the world, the calamities that seem to occur to
all people as some point, we can trust in One who is good and be confident that He who works all things according to His good purposes has a plan that we just might not be able to perceive.

Let me finish this by saying that I am often dismayed that people speak of faith glibly and without thought. I believe that faith is (and should be at times) a struggle for thinking people. It is not as Soren Kirkegaard and others have described is, ie. "blind faith." To take a blind leap into the unknown is foolishness, not faith. It is instead a deliberation to trust in something or someone for which or whom there is good reason to trust. I, though I have been a Christian for almost 35 years, have from time to time prayed as one man who once stood before Jesus weeping: "I believe. Lord, help my unbelief!"

I hope that some of this will help to provoke you to continue your journey.


And realised I was out of my depth. Now, I'm not sure if posting these was a proper thing to do... After all, the intended audience was me alone, as far as I know. But I need help in structuring some questions and answers. Umm, not sure what else I should say. But thanks in advance.
GoddessWhispers
Forgive me being so bold, however I would say, if I were you, I would wonder how hard is it to say, "I don't believe in the christian doctrine." Mean it and have that settle it. Someone that can not accept that, doesn't accept you, in light of that.


Is that a friend?

Or is that someone that's trying, with this pastor appointment that you dread because you admit you are no match to their counter argument to your living your own life, someone invested in trying to get you to change to their line of thinking, so they can accept you for, not who you are now, but who they prefer you to be!?
chaostrom
Please, no need for forgiveness. I am one given to the search for truth, and honesty is always welcome yes.gif

Now I see where you're coming from, but believe me, she won't be able to get her mind around the fact I'm not Christian grin2.gif . She's smart, but not one given to questioning and thinking outside the box. I've already said I'm not Christian, and she couldn't understand it. She asked me for reasons, assuring me it's the truth, but she couldn't answer my questions, which is why she brought her pastor into the equation.

Nor is it an appointment I have with this pastor, and I don't dread it either, since if I don't e-mail him with a question he can't do anything but wait for me to contact him grin2.gif . No, I'm just trying to figure out how much I know, and if it'll do me any good (i.e. whether I can use the information I have or not). It's also to see what reasons and answers the pastor will share with me. I'm all for learning, and that's just what this is about.

I can assure you this is no attempt to convert me, they are just as curious to learn about my views as I am of theirs.

Thanks for your boldness GW.
GoddessWhispers
Anytime. wink2.gif Enjoy the experience and do let us know how things work out, all around. original.gif
truethat
How can she not "get her mind around" the fact that you aren't Christian? What does she think of all the Buddhists and Jews floating around the world.

I agree with you that cold might be the absence of heat but to say cold doesn't exist is just stupid in my opinion.

Evil as an absence of good does exist. So why? If God is all powerful then your pastors answers are a bunch of horse pucky.

The proper answer would be "We don't have the capacity to comprehend the true nature of evil and what it means. We can only go by the symptoms of evil. So for example if you take a person and the person is sweating and fanning themselves we can see that it is hot. If the person is shivering and smoky breath is coming out of their mouths we can see it is cold. If you were however, watching a movie you could only go by the symptoms of hot or cold to discern whether it is hot or cold in the scene you are watching. You wouldn't be able to actually comprehend on your own the hot or cold. Thus with Good or Evil you could only go by the symptoms or discriptions of Good or Evil. And since we can't discern that on our own, that's what God tells us and we are to listen to him."

But

If I were you I'd lose the friend and tell them that they, like you are atheist. You just don't believe in one more God than they do.
chaostrom
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Anytime. wink2.gif Enjoy the experience and do let us know how things work out, all around. original.gif


Thanks. I'll keep this thread updated... Once I contact this pastor and get a response grin2.gif

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How can she not "get her mind around" the fact that you aren't Christian? What does she think of all the Buddhists and Jews floating around the world.


As far as I've been able to acertain, she just can't. I suspect that, as I once did, she believes there are only Christians, unbelievers and devil-worshippers, although it is only a suspicion and nothing more. Although, this day and age, everyone knows about the existence of Muslims, so it's a suspicion probably best discarded. It's probably all very confusing for her, since I am neither Christian, Muslim or devil-worshipper, and cannot be an unbeliever since I do believe in a higher power. I have been unable to tell her what I am, because I consciously avoid any lebelling of any kind, so as to pursue the truth unfettered with doctrine, group-think and such.

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I agree with you that cold might be the absence of heat but to say cold doesn't exist is just stupid in my opinion.

Evil as an absence of good does exist. So why? If God is all powerful then your pastors answers are a bunch of horse pucky.


I have no idea which e-mail these are in response to, but I'll assume that the first sentence is in regard to mine. As far as I know, cold is merely a degree of heat, only meaningful comparatively. A human would find the Alaskan winter very cold, but to a polar bear it's probably not very cold at all. And I have no idea what that "why" in the second line is asking. Could you explain?

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The proper answer would be "We don't have the capacity to comprehend the true nature of evil and what it means. We can only go by the symptoms of evil. So for example if you take a person and the person is sweating and fanning themselves we can see that it is hot. If the person is shivering and smoky breath is coming out of their mouths we can see it is cold. If you were however, watching a movie you could only go by the symptoms of hot or cold to discern whether it is hot or cold in the scene you are watching. You wouldn't be able to actually comprehend on your own the hot or cold. Thus with Good or Evil you could only go by the symptoms or discriptions of Good or Evil. And since we can't discern that on our own, that's what God tells us and we are to listen to him."


My mind is currently humming in low gear, so I've no idea what that's for tongue.gif

But it sounds compelling all the same. I'll get back to it when I get thinking and understand it hopefully...

But:

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If I were you I'd lose the friend and tell them that they, like you are atheist. You just don't believe in one more God than they do.


I don't think that'll be necessary. She's been very good to me, and I don't see the need to ruin our friendship just because she's interested in what I believe. I'd bring her to these forums if it weren't for my opinion she'd be lost very quickly tongue.gif
chaostrom
Okay, so despite the lack of interest and help I managed, after looking around these forums for about an hour or so, frame some sort of reply. Now to wait for the response.

This is what I sent just now:
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Pardon the long reprieve, I am not very good at putting my thoughts into words, and I've had to take time to figure out exactly what you were saying.

May I point out that absolute zero is a theoretical limit, currently impossible to achieve. I will also again point out that although a small light source can illuminate darkness, it is because is light that darkness exists.

Now, you've mentioned the bible, which happens to be a point of great contention. The bible is a book, and whether it is God's word or not is debatable. A loving God advocating violence? An omnipotent God sacrificing his own son to change his own mind? The bible shows all the shortcomings of a human mind (especially when you consider all the contradictions), and, even assuming the Christian pantheon of spirits exist, the bible may very well be the work of Satan. God knows that religion and politics have been the cause of a great many of civilisation's woes, a tool that has more often than not been used to feed one's ego, pride and ambition. So how do we acknowledge God for who he is, when he does not give undeniable evidence proclaiming who he is? Many so-called Christians will say that Satan's greatest trick is to persuade many that he does not exist, but that can be expanded upon to say Satan's greatest trick is to persuade people that the bible is God's word. Certainly a great many acts in the bible are believable of an evil persona.

You've also said "All this business about His being omniscient, omnipotent, eternally self-existing, etc. is not much comfort if we are not aware that He is good", but as far as comfort goes, shouldn't one rather feel a chill at the idea of a loving God whose Grand Plan calculates and allows for so much pain and suffering, death and destruction?

Looking forward to your reply.
zandore
QUOTE(chaostrom @ Jun 1 2007, 05:52 PM) [snapback]1704726[/snapback]
The reply I got was this:
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First, no, God did not create evil.

From the source of the Christian Bible the Tanakh I know of at least one verse off the top of my head that says differently

Isaiah 45:7
I form the light, and create darkness; I make peace, and create evil; I am HaShem, that doeth all these things.
chaostrom
Well, if you read further on you'll see I mentioned that passage. He had an answer for that as well:

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As for the passage to which you referred, Isaiah 45:7, it needs to be understood that the Hebrew word [transliterated into English ra] has a rather broad range of meanings. That is the case with many Hebrew words, since Classical Hebrew had such a small working vocabulary. Ra generally denotes something that is unpleasant, inferior, of bad quality, or disagreeable. It can even describe a person who is depressed or in a foul mood. That is why translators and commentators are not entirely agreed as to the precise meaning of Isaiah 45:7 and certain other passages. The context of the passage is proclaiming God's sovereignty over all things, to create circumstances as He wills to do.
Jor-el
QUOTE(chaostrom @ Jun 1 2007, 10:52 PM) [snapback]1704726[/snapback]
Okay, so what this is about is, a friend of mine, who's Christian, wants to help me to discover the truth and come back on to the true path. However, not being one for questioning, she's referred me to her pastor, who is more than a match for me, especially since I have difficulty putting my thoughts into words. Not to mention my patchy memory tongue.gif

So I'm asking for a little help to make my points. Keep in mind though, this isn't about attacking Christianity. I want to get across to him why I don't believe in Christianity, many reasons which I have gathered on these forums.

This was my first question:
The reply I got was this:
Formidable intellect, this man has. I sent back this reply:
And received this response:
And realised I was out of my depth. Now, I'm not sure if posting these was a proper thing to do... After all, the intended audience was me alone, as far as I know. But I need help in structuring some questions and answers. Umm, not sure what else I should say. But thanks in advance.


Well, from the top of my head I think that instead of publishing your debate with the Minister involved, you could simply ask your questions on the board, straight out, that way you could also learn from the answers people give as well as any counter arguments that may arise.

It would also inspire more people to answer you instead of having to make a critical assesment of another persons comments, which is time consuming.

Just a thought.
chaostrom
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Well, from the top of my head I think that instead of publishing your debate with the Minister involved, you could simply ask your questions on the board, straight out, that way you could also learn from the answers people give as well as any counter arguments that may arise.

It would also inspire more people to answer you instead of having to make a critical assesment of another persons comments, which is time consuming.

Just a thought.


Ah, well, I've actually done that. First thread I ever made. The thing is many of my threads don't really go anywhere. It would appear I have difficulty in getting my points across. Besides, my friend is adamant I give her pastor a chance happy.gif . Also, I learn a lot from just reading threads in these forums, and usually someone would make a point I wish to make better than I could, which explains my dismal post count tongue.gif

I realise that a critical assessment of someone else's comments is time-consuming, time that many possibly don't have. Patience fewer would have. I thought I'd try throwing it out anyway. Who knows; someone else may learn something from this interchange.
Jor-el
QUOTE(chaostrom @ Jun 3 2007, 12:08 AM) [snapback]1706136[/snapback]
Ah, well, I've actually done that. First thread I ever made. The thing is many of my threads don't really go anywhere. It would appear I have difficulty in getting my points across. Besides, my friend is adamant I give her pastor a chance happy.gif . Also, I learn a lot from just reading threads in these forums, and usually someone would make a point I wish to make better than I could, which explains my dismal post count tongue.gif

I realise that a critical assessment of someone else's comments is time-consuming, time that many possibly don't have. Patience fewer would have. I thought I'd try throwing it out anyway. Who knows; someone else may learn something from this interchange.

Well ask a few questions here and now, see how it goes... happy.gif
chaostrom
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Well ask a few questions here and now, see how it goes... happy.gif


Well, actually, I've been mulling over an idea lately, but I've yet to sort it out. I'll definately post it once it's more than a jumble of words and ideas happy.gif
ND-DAVE
QUOTE(chaostrom @ Jun 1 2007, 03:52 PM) [snapback]1704726[/snapback]
Okay, so what this is about is, a friend of mine, who's Christian, wants to help me to discover the truth and come back on to the true path. However, not being one for questioning, she's referred me to her pastor, who is more than a match for me, especially since I have difficulty putting my thoughts into words. Not to mention my patchy memory tongue.gif

So I'm asking for a little help to make my points. Keep in mind though, this isn't about attacking Christianity. I want to get across to him why I don't believe in Christianity, many reasons which I have gathered on these forums.

This was my first question:
The reply I got was this:
Formidable intellect, this man has. I sent back this reply:
And received this response:
And realised I was out of my depth. Now, I'm not sure if posting these was a proper thing to do... After all, the intended audience was me alone, as far as I know. But I need help in structuring some questions and answers. Umm, not sure what else I should say. But thanks in advance.


I will try to answer your questions to the best of my ability.

(1) Evil is merely a catagory to describe a certian thought or action. In the case of God being the creator of all evil is simply the opposite, or the yang. God has his laws that he wishes us to abide by. Since God is the ultimate power in the universe and creator of all his law or word is what is to be considered good under his judgement. For example look at your belief on what is good and evil. You have an opinion on right and wrong. You deem the rightouse good and the wrong evil.

God does the same. But since he is supreme as his law and judgement overides ours. Just like how the goverment's laws deem you right or wrong. You may feel justified in the act you committed but under law you are deemed a criminal. God's law is good because God has appointed his laws good. Just like the government deems their laws just and good. We may personally think other wise but none the less the government law stands since they are the supreme rulers of the land.

Worshippers of God deem his laws good because they abide by them and believe they are good. Just like the people of a country follow the laws given to them by their government. So evil is merely the opposite of the law and word of God. But it is true that one cannot be without the other.

(2) It is true when it is said that the devil created evil and sin. He was the first to use his free will to oppose God's law. Free will is the greatest gift and the heaviest burden given to us. Unlike our governments who police their laws daily, God allows us the free will to live our lives accordingly to how we see fit. We have our whole lives to do what we feel is right and wrong. Judgment for those acts are under the jurisdiction of God's Word and Law which states that a judgement day will accour at the end of days.

So it goes back to sin being the opposite of God's law which makes it evil in his eyes. No sin is greater than another. In our minds or even a government's the may be catagorised in a fashion of greater to least wrong, but in God's eyes all are equal. The devil decided to use his free will to break God's law and so he was punished. It is no different than someone trying to over throw the President of the US, or the Queen of Great Brittian. They will be cast out of the country or be executed.

The true sign of God's love and grace is that he does not want to kill his creations. He never truelly turns his back to any of them, including the devil. Forgiveness for sin is allways there, unlike a government's law that demands punishment.

(3) This one goes back to the ideology of free will. As I said before it is our greatest gift and our heaviest burden. We are allowed to do as we please our whole entire life. Now from a Christian point of view that would be either follow the laws of God or don't. Now since a Christian believes that God's laws are just and good anything opposite of them would be criminal and evil. God does not condemn, at least not yet. He has allowed us the free will to choose our own path. He wants us to follow his but he does not enforce it. One thing that God does not do is go against his word. His word is everything. God can never be evil because he abides by his own laws. None the less, he is the judge of those laws and how we abide by them.

Now before anyone jumps and states that God commands do not murder but he has killed in the old testament look at his example. You are in a court room and standing infront of the judge is a convicted sex offender who has killed over forty people and raped their dead bodies. He is technically sane in the courts eyes and is being judged to the full extent of the law. He is given given the death penalty for breaking the law and committing such henouse crimes. Now aside from those who believe the death penalty wrong, I would assume that you would praise the judgement.

It is no different than when God judged mankind and sent the flood. He executed mankind for its breaking of his law. One thing you must realise is that God policed the OT. In the NT he gave us an un-exstingishable pardon (Christ). But in order for him to allow the pardon to erase our breaking of the law we must use it. If we dont than it is no different than us taking a pardon from the court and throwing it in the trash.

From that point of view we deem our leaders and officials good or evil. Just or Corrupt. For example if the law states not to launder money or steal cars or ect, and a government official does such but gets away with it because he is the law maker, than that would be un-just and us as the people would deem him an evil leader. God stays true to his word and laws. That is what makes him good in the eyes of a Christian.

Hope this helps a little. If you have more questions just let me know.
Captain Kolak
You have to be carefull though, because some questions and comments may be offensive or wrongly interpreted.
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