First, I'd like to post an update on the relative of mine who suffers bursitis. She spoke of a second incident where she held her hand against her shoulder in the hope of eliminating the pain. Whether she has awakened her ability to heal herself with energy and/or thought, or whether her hand served the function of heat therapy, I cannot judge.
Below is post #34 from FindTheVariable in his thread titled "Show Me It Now" (July 7th 12:32AM)
http://www.unexplained-mysteries.com/forum...99109&st=30QUOTE
Hello again Frank,
I am curious what are you thinking during you're healings? Like what are you feeling, imagining, or intending?
If any members should find any vagueness and request elaboration, I will indulge you. While doing my best to answer your questions, I'd also like readers to step away with the confidence to attempt distant healing.
First of all, my approach is far removed from the participant in the study Jj discussed. As I said in a PM, it would be much like measuring the practice of a surgeon (Him) against a massage therapist (Me). I once described myself in jest as "Walking ibuprofen and acetaminophen", so I was amused when he said that he didn't want to be a mere aspirin. I had dealings with a woman in '06 who demonstrated abilities for me that fell somewhere between mine and his in terms of potency, so the content of the PM I received didn't come completely out of left field.
For those of you who saw "Good Will Hunting", you may remember the scene with the Harvard professor and Will's therapist in which the professor states, "I'm nothing compared to this boy." He should have said, "My mathematical abilities are inferior compared to those of Will." It's an important distinction, and because of the former sentiment, idolatry occurs and people like Jj's friend choose not to make themselves known. My distant healing is nothing compared to the study participant; but a massage therapist can easily treat a surgeon like a human being, and vice versa.
As for my discovery, it was approximately one year following a road trip when my friend and I experienced several simultaneous chills that I tested this development further. At that time, in early 1999, I hadn't yet discovered the hands-on method. Obviously, I had no reason to think that these shared sensations served any useful purpose.
I believe it was the last week of Dec. '99 when I repeated the shared chilling sensations with my mother. Since my friend and I had been in a truck, seated within a couple feet of each other, I opted for a greater distance. My mother was in the living room, and I was in the den (30 ft, roughly) To initiate the chills, I stood in the dark and intentionally startled myself with any sudden appearance of visual stimuli. The catalyst to perceiving the chills with my friend was the shock factor while swapping 'strange but true' tales to pass the time. This is why I chose to startle myself when experimenting the second time. However, I didn't want to be within visual range, nor did I want to rely on conversational elements.
Whether the visual stimuli be byproducts of tissue interactions in vitreous fluid, or energy I've learned to perceive during self-induced trance states, this is irrelevant. What seems to be relevant is building energy through strong emotion and transmitting it with positive intent. Once the first chill is achieved, subsequent pulses manifest rather easily. Simply focusing upon the link with the individual and the fascination of it tends to provoke further activity.
When my chills were pulsing at their strongest level, my mother was reacting immediately with utterances such as "Ahh! Stop!" I could tell by her tone that she was partly awed and partly amused, but not in any distress. I wasn't asking her for reactions at all, so the confirmation of evidence was equivalent to that which I had with the cat I discussed in the Energy Healing thread.
As for actual healing experience, I take whatever I know of the person, which amounted to a photograph and a series of chat sessions in one instance. The woman was 1,500 miles away from me, and she described the sensation of the migraine alleviation as if the pain was steam rising from the top of her head. In subsequent discussions, she didn't complain of any further headaches. I had to rely on her honesty, and trust that her reaction was not sugar-coated to preserve my ego, but she happened to be a fervent conservative from the South without fear of hurting another's feelings so long as truth was on her side.
Face-to-face contact and a well established relationship improves the odds of success significantly in my case. There have been failures, but there have also been confirmed links with those I'd never seen before. I do believe that this is something others, who don't deem themselves psychic, can learn to do without the economic burden of training at psychic institutes.
Since looking deeply into the eyes of another can be a powerful, chill-inducing experience, I'd suggest starting with this for anyone willing to test the concept. Failing the eye contact, you could employ the scary story technique that led to my discovery. If and when you decide to distance yourselves and/or face away from one another, you could either rely upon monosyllabic verbal cues when pulses reach their height of intensity, or invite a third party to monitor hand signals for more reliable, unbiased experimentation.
I'd label my involvement with distant healing an active form of prayer, as opposed to simply asking or hoping. If the person requests that a particular body part be treated, I imagine the pain dissolving and/or the inflammation reducing. When one wishes for a general demonstration, I imagine him/her relaxing.
The study participant from Jj's post has a strict code of ethics in conducting his healing (The woman mentioned earlier does not), and while I have never caused harm to those I've treated, I recognize the potential. If you should decide to test the exchange of simultaneous chills with another, or take it to the next level in an attempt to heal, make sure that you are directing positive emotion at the other party. You should always confirm that permission has been granted.
Some of you may have read my brief discussion with the Fibromyalgia sufferer in this thread. When I know of credible medical information regarding an illness, I direct the person to on-line sources where they can seek help if doctors have failed them. With conditions that are habit based, it would be similar to me patching and inflating a tire repeatedly when the driver promises to puncture it each time I complete the task.
As for the earlier request to repair a deviated septum, one may as well suggest an ear tuck or an eye lift. This amounts to manipulation beyond that which the body can perform for itself when all natural healing pathways are intact.
EDITED TO DEFINE LIMITS UPON PRIVATE MESSAGING:
No offense is intended to the PM respondent from earlier today who was speaking on behalf of a banned UM member, but please do not contact me with requests that I join other forums.
An offer was made to answer questions of a sensitive nature via PM, not for subjecting myself to burgeoning webmasters hoping to augment their advertising revenue.
Being that one is able to see my posts, in arriving at the decision to invite me elsewhere, this is enough. Link the information on your personal forum if you find it useful. Ignore it if you don't.