So this would be really cool to learn. Can you actually just learn stuff like this?

Nope you sure can't and, you are not born with it either! Simply because abilities like these xyz-kinesis, do not exist.

You should really try using the search option! There have been many threads on these supposed abilities,
you could have found everything you needed to know by doing this.

It exists only in Science FICTION and now where else.

I would NOT encourage you to experiment w/fire up close, this WILL NOT BE HEALTHY! Just think about it for 10 seconds.

o O ( where is simple reasoning skills here.... good grief.)

Please do not start topics asking for someone to teach you how to perform or acquire metaphysical abilities; threads consisting of nothing but "how do I learn xyzkinesis???" or anything similar will be closed.