constant bad luck

[tweek22]

hi everyone sorry if this is in the wrong place.

is it possible to have constant bad luck,everywhere we have lived we have had neighbours from hell.we also have bab luck all the time each time we think things might be looking up

each time i get a job something goes wrong even though they say there is nothing wrong with my work,they say they no longer need me,it is driving me mad i just want to have a normal family life and be happy with my wife and little boy.

something horrible happens,me and my wife have both seen like dark shadows shoot across the floor of every home we have lived in as if something is following us.we also did change our surname by deed poll,as i fell out with my family

could that have caused it have we chosen a bad name the surname we chose was russell.we also did see a clairvoyant once who took my wifes ring and spun it around her finger,and said someone who wears a lot of jewellery wants to destroy us.

the only person we know who fits that descripition is my mother.one other thing this may sound daft sorry,the old wifes tale where if your right hand itches you are coming into money,and if its your left you will lose money,my left hand always constantly itches,and no matter what i do it doesnt stop

i have been to the doctors thinking it could be something wrong who sent me to see a specialist,but they cannot find any thing wrong.

could we be cursed by my mother or could our name change have caused it,many thanks for any help everyone.

[Vampwitchenstein]

hi everyone sorry if this is in the wrong place.

is it possible to have constant bad luck,everywhere we have lived we have had neighbours from hell.we also have bab luck all the time each time we think things might be looking up

each time i get a job something goes wrong even though they say there is nothing wrong with my work,they say they no longer need me,it is driving me mad i just want to have a normal family life and be happy with my wife and little boy.

something horrible happens,me and my wife have both seen like dark shadows shoot across the floor of every home we have lived in as if something is following us.we also did change our surname by deed poll,as i fell out with my family

could that have caused it have we chosen a bad name the surname we chose was russell.we also did see a clairvoyant once who took my wifes ring and spun it around her finger,and said someone who wears a lot of jewellery wants to destroy us.

the only person we know who fits that descripition is my mother.one other thing this may sound daft sorry,the old wifes tale where if your right hand itches you are coming into money,and if its your left you will lose money,my left hand always constantly itches,and no matter what i do it doesnt stop

i have been to the doctors thinking it could be something wrong who sent me to see a specialist,but they cannot find any thing wrong.

could we be cursed by my mother or could our name change have caused it,many thanks for any help everyone.

I think you've answered your own question. You have Family problems that went so far as to make you change your surname, that's got to be pretty serious falling out. If I may read between the lines, I think you know your Mom is holding ill will towards you. The Surname change has nothing to do with it.

Think on this, for me, please; Guilt. Is it possible you carry a lot of guilt from whats happened and in some way feel that you aren't worthy to be happy and stable? I'll check back. Much luck to you and best wishes.

[tweek22]

thank you for your reply blondiqeist,my family did not like my choice of partner who i married, i was supposed to marry someone else but we had an argument and i got married in haste if thats the right way of putting it.im not sure why but the woman i was supposed to have married, i keep seeing her face in my mind and its driving me mad,i cannot leave my wife and little boy,and i have no idea why this is happening,do you have any idea why this is happening to me.....?,thank you for your help.

is there anyway we can change things so life is kind to us for a change, or anyway we can break her ill will towards us......?

Edited October 11, 2008 by tweek22

[She-ra]

Your life is what you make it. There is always room for change. Nothing is impossible.

Just try, for say one week, to think of anything good in your life and be thankful. Sorry I don't mean to get all preachy here but think about it. If you have a roof over your head..be thankful. If you have clothes to wear...be thankful... and so on...

The world is not all pretty rainbows and flowers everywhere. Just try to make the best of what you DO HAVE. The uglies can be CHANGED... that is if you have the true desire to change.

*Edit to add: Don't believe everything you hear from "psychic's". You can choose to make ammends with family issues or cut ties all together. Make YOUR OWN LIFE. No one has the right to judge you but yourself. Do what makes YOU happy. Okay I'll stop now...

Edited October 11, 2008 by She-ra