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Dating don'ts! What puts you off?


Pulsar_J

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I dislike it when a man judges how women look saying this one is too fat, too skinny or too ugly but in the meanwhile they themselves are not really something to look at.

I know.. The amount of times I have seen some half wit of a guy.. call girls fat and ugly. .and they look worse... Put it this way, they sure are no oil painting !!

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When she gets mad because while dating her, I was dating her prettier younger sister or her mom behind her back.

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No joke. My sister's ex boyfriend is bugging me online. I think it's creepy. He had sex with her just 2-3 months before. I'm not responding to him.

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Hairy girls, gold diggers and promiscuous girls.

OK I don't mind promiscuous girls if she is only for like one night stand.

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Hairy girls, gold diggers and promiscuous girls.

OK I don't mind promiscuous girls if she is only for like one night stand.

*Tosses my razor in the fire* Слобода (freedom) !!!

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*Tosses my razor in the fire* Слобода (freedom) !!!

Нашата смисла на слобода е само илузија на нашата свест

Anyway I'm sure you'll find someone who will love you without you using a razor....or at least by you one :D

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Dating do's and don'ts...

don't EVER take dating advice from a Mule....

*Scribbles furiously on a notepad*

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When your girl wants to watch porn with you. Then when she does she goes "Can we do that?" "Can we try that next time?" "No way that's 10 inches". It is so annoying.

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When they are breathing. ok, probably joking.... one thing I CAN'T stand is overpowering after-shave/deodrant. What are they trying to cover? The real them?? :yes:

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Anyone who expects sex, like they deserve it from you because you're dating.

I bet some people are like that here :no:

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What's wrong with sex?

Nothing at all. What I mean is like you're going out with a person and they get mad because you don't want to have sex, or they think that the relationship needs to have sex in it to be something.

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Well, I couldn't think of a relationship without sex. I believe a healthy sex life is very important for a healthy relationship.

But getting mad for not getting any, that is indeed a problem.

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Nothing at all. What I mean is like you're going out with a person and they get mad because you don't want to have sex, or they think that the relationship needs to have sex in it to be something.

Its not a written rule, but if you are dating someone for let say a more than a two weeks its time for sex, that's is normal for a relationship if you are above 19 years old. If you don't have sex something is wrong usually.

I understand that some parts of the world sex is tabby and i'm guessing you are living there, and that's perfectly fine, but have in mind that not all the world function by your moral rules.

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I avoid women that -

1. Fart or burp.

2. Are controlling.

3. Dark negative personality.

4. Aggressive, moody and violatile.

5. G-srings or butt hanging out the back of the jeans.

6. Smells bad.

7. Looks ruff.

8. Manipulative.

9. Attention seeking.

10. No respect for others.

11. Smokes.

12. Has tatoos.

13. Poor confidence.

14. Needy or clingy.

15. Cant communicate.

16. Has man issues.

17. Perves.

18. Is poor.

19. And finally is just plain weird!

Number 4- Yeah I hate it when a woman spontaneously pulls out a viola and starts playing it aggressively :lol:

Some of them aye, but that's quite a comprehensive list. To be honest I don't really mind women who fart or burp, I guess it shows they're comfortable with their bodily functions, and comfortable enough around you to show that side of them. Obviously not intentionally blasting out, but the accidental slip, well I find if kinda funny and perhaps cute :lol:

Tattoos, meh some tats look good.Depends on what it is.

Personally my turnoffs are:

mental

orange

massive fake talons

no personality

obnoxious

demanding or otherwise controlling

a tail

That's it really.

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Its not a written rule, but if you are dating someone for let say a more than a two weeks its time for sex, that's is normal for a relationship if you are above 19 years old. If you don't have sex something is wrong usually.

I understand that some parts of the world sex is tabby and i'm guessing you are living there, and that's perfectly fine, but have in mind that not all the world function by your moral rules.

Interesting. Some people still seem to believe that relationships must revolve around sex. It's a nice byproduct, but what's the rush? 2 weeks to me is probably a couple of dates and some phone conversations lol. 2 weeks.... Man... I'm still trying to gague whether they're safe or not :lol:

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Its not a written rule, but if you are dating someone for let say a more than a two weeks its time for sex, that's is normal for a relationship if you are above 19 years old. If you don't have sex something is wrong usually.

I understand that some parts of the world sex is tabby and i'm guessing you are living there, and that's perfectly fine, but have in mind that not all the world function by your moral rules.

More then two weeks? Geeze, I've barely kissed someone after two weeks. I don't see how not having sex means there's something wrong. It's a component of making a future generations, true, does it make some people feel more connected to each other, true. I don't see sex as a necessary thing in a emotional, mature, and romantic relationship, is it wrong that many people think it belongs there? Nope. Personally though, when I'm ready, I must be sure of the person I'm with before I risk any chance of their snake going into my burrow.

As to where I live, Texas, I wouldn't say sex is taboo. Many girls I was in high school with ended up pregnant, while in school, many a times by guys they were dating, who then promptly moved on to greener pastures, albeit a bit poorer.

Heck, if you wear protection and take birth control, go for it if you're an adult, if you're unsafe about it, what the heck man? Come on... It's like playing American Football while nude. Not safe.

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Women that only like "typical" sex. I grew up with the internet, missionary just isn't gung to cut it. & religious women. Sorry but we are just going to butt heads in that department. Though it would probably lead to fun, angry "I hate you" sex

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Women, who, when asked to tell me about themselves immediatley start with the sentance...

"Well, after I was released, I moved back in with my mother..."

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Women, who, when asked to tell me about themselves immediatley start with the sentance...

"Well, after I was released, I moved back in with my mother..."

LOL. A buddy and I stopped in a wing place for a pitcher of beer and some wings and noticed that the waitress was someone we went to high school with - not someone we actually KNEW, but someone we recognized. She clearly recognized us too so we decided to mess with her.

We told her we'd been in prison for the last 6 years because we shot a store clerk during a robbery. We just got out that very morning and having our priorities in order, we were going to kill a pitcher of beer and then find a woman we could take out six years of pent up sexual energy on. At this point, I give her that little eyebrow raise and ask her when she gets off. Her response, "Sorry, I'd love to, but I'm married so I can't help... wait a minute!!" - then she gives us her SISTER'S phone number.

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I'm with Biff on this one, I can't stand traditional minded women persist the man has to go first in a relationship, which to me is submission to her male lover and she feels men have to be "assertive", but it reminds me of an abusive dominating role instead of egalitarianism.

You have to be careful discussing politics, religion or anything "divisive" (includes sports) on a date, then I want a date who I can have an intelligent conversation with and has an open mind, not react towards me in a way "you're wrong" and "you didn't do your research". Later dates are when you can open up more on how you feel in such things, therefore avoid those kinds of subjects unless your date doesn't object to them.

Chivalry of a man paying for a date is still a popular aspect of good dating behavior, but a date should offer an option to help pay for a dinner when in today's world, more women are financially stable and independent.

And have basic manners, doesn't hurt to have some etiquette or common sense in a date. Both genders in dates don't burp, fart, swear or curse in public, and act like jerks (period). No loudness/tone, unexcused interruption and dominating the conversation.

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