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Nursing home prostitution scandal

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http://www.livescience.com/26669-nursing-home-strippers-prostitutes.html

A nursing home is under investigation after allegations were made that staff allowed residents to sleep with prostitutes and also see strippers.

The prostitutes and strippers were allowed to visit the premises.

Apparently some of the residents groped and sexually harassed staff members so the staff thought it be a good idea to give them prostitutes and strippers.

I don't know what other people's opinions on this are.

But I think it's wrong. I don't think that neither prostitutes or strippers should be allowed into a nursing home. It's the same if someone invited a prostitute into an office while everyone is having there lunch breaks. It's just unprofessional on the part of the nursing home. Also if residents are groping and sexually harassing staff. Then they should be punished and put somewhere where they can not harm people.

I do hate the way that if people are disabled. They automatically are classed as "Innocent" and "Nice" by everyone.And get away with things that most people would get into serious trouble over.

If an O.A.P. in an retirement home groped staff.He would get into serious trouble.

Why should someone who is disabled be allowed to get away with it?

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oh wow. I am in school for nursing and this is one topic I often wonder about; what if I'm groped while on duty? I am sure there is protocol to follow for these types of situations that I will learn about in the coming months but I should be sorta safe, I am an older female lol. But yeah, this is unprofessional. Let the resident's kids take them to the strip clubs.

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Happy Days Retirement Home?

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Who paid for the prostitutes and strippers ? Was there booze involved ?

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Just because we age doesn't necessarily mean that our thoughts age. Men can be pervy at any age, they just may not have the body function or attractiveness to be able to act on their impulses. Make prostitution legal. Tax the vices. :D

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ali who knows may be one day you might be in a retirement village one day, and your way of thinking of life would of change like them. What would you do then? These things are known to happen

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Personally, I blame Viagra. Time was nature took its course...problem solved.

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I use to give Viagra to this guy in a nursing home. He had some weird condition and it helped a specific blood condition in his heart work right. We all thought it was kinda weird and it was the only time in 20 years I seen it given in that setting. But times are a changing since I left the medical field it seems.

Way back in the day docs would prescribe shots of whiskey nightly to certain patients. i assume they were alcoholics. But it was weird giving these drugs/alcohol to mentally (as in dementia) folks.

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Prostitution is legal in the UK isn't it? And these people LIVE in the nursing home. Where else are they going to go? Over here there are prostitutes that specialise in the mentally handicapped at care homes. Not much of a scandal.

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Personally, I blame Viagra. Time was nature took its course...problem solved.

Your joking right, supply and demand is that not the true American way. Give old dudes viagra and legalize prostitution. If anything blaim the tramps that are willing to sell themselves not the buyer as there will always be a buyer. Worlds oldest proffesion should be utilized not scrutinized.

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Your joking right, supply and demand is that not the true American way. Give old dudes viagra and legalize prostitution. If anything blaim the tramps that are willing to sell themselves not the buyer as there will always be a buyer. Worlds oldest proffesion should be utilized not scrutinized.

No, I'm not kidding. IMO the culture that encourages this type of behaviour has influenced the medical profession to provide Viagra to people that shouldn't have it. Also, one can't just blame the prostitutes when it's the Johns who are willing to pay them. There's also plenty of blame to go around to the nursing homes who have allowed this nonsense to take place on 'their watch'.

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No, I'm not kidding. IMO the culture that encourages this type of behaviour has influenced the medical profession to provide Viagra to people that shouldn't have it. Also, one can't just blame the prostitutes when it's the Johns who are willing to pay them. There's also plenty of blame to go around to the nursing homes who have allowed this nonsense to take place on 'their watch'.

And old people or mentally handicapped should not be allowed to have sex? Maybe we just leave them alone to die slowly without any pleasure in thier lives, getting more and more sexually frustrated and behaving inappropriately towards nurses who are just trying to do their jobs.

Who is the victim in a prostitutes sexual act?

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No, I'm not kidding. IMO the culture that encourages this type of behaviour has influenced the medical profession to provide Viagra to people that shouldn't have it. Also, one can't just blame the prostitutes when it's the Johns who are willing to pay them. There's also plenty of blame to go around to the nursing homes who have allowed this nonsense to take place on 'their watch'.

Might as well stop giving them any medication as we know what thinking minds can imagine oh say sex. Stop all meds and keep them in comas till they die. Viagra is not the issue and to be frank a pretty silly comment.

Prostitution should be 100% legal as it is victimless until made illegal.

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Why is it wrong to actually get paid for the things you want to do? Sex for money from two willing parties is a little more honest then marrying somebody just for money.

Maybe if there were more strippers and prostitutes at nursing homes more people might go see their folks while they are there as well. Might even be a good incentive for people to put more folks who need in to a home instead of leaving them out to rot.

Oh you need sometime to give my Gramps a (insert whatever medical thing I don't want to watch) for 45 minutes.... I'd go watch the strippers. Give both the girls and the home a slice of the profits and tada better health care for the ones we care about.

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Why is it wrong to actually get paid for the things you want to do? Sex for money from two willing parties is a little more honest then marrying somebody just for money.

Maybe if there were more strippers and prostitutes at nursing homes more people might go see their folks while they are there as well. Might even be a good incentive for people to put more folks who need in to a home instead of leaving them out to rot.

Oh you need sometime to give my Gramps a (insert whatever medical thing I don't want to watch) for 45 minutes.... I'd go watch the strippers. Give both the girls and the home a slice of the profits and tada better health care for the ones we care about.

I like the gib of your gab and yes marriage should be illegal. It`s a legal scam for the church and the governments.

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I don't think the nursing homes can restrict who comes to visit or what they do when they visit as long as they aren't causing any trouble. In some nursing homes the nurses are allowed to sleep with the residents as long as they are off duty and the resident concents. All they request is that they hang a do not disturb sign on the door.

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Nursing homes don't allow alcohol, tobacco, gambling (for money), recreational drugs etc. Why should they become involved in prostitution? All this talk of 'better to leave the old folks to die if they can't have prostitutes' is not a rational argument. If one wants gandpa to have this type of service then it's the family who need to go and collect their loved one and take him for a day out at a bordello (ie, cat house). This kind of thing is not the perogative of nursing home facilities.

Also, do you all realize just how old and disabled people are when they go to a nursing home? Not to mention that in most locations prostitution is illegal. Not to further mention the STDs carried by said prostitutes. Or to keep mentioning that someone was making a lot of money off these old folks. IMO this is not a good thing and I doubt you will be seeing 'hooker day' advertised by any nursing homes.

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Nursing homes don't allow alcohol, tobacco, gambling (for money), recreational drugs etc. Why should they become involved in prostitution? All this talk of 'better to leave the old folks to die if they can't have prostitutes' is not a rational argument. If one wants gandpa to have this type of service then it's the family who need to go and collect their loved one and take him for a day out at a bordello (ie, cat house). This kind of thing is not the perogative of nursing home facilities.

Also, do you all realize just how old and disabled people are when they go to a nursing home? Not to mention that in most locations prostitution is illegal. Not to further mention the STDs carried by said prostitutes. Or to keep mentioning that someone was making a lot of money off these old folks. IMO this is not a good thing and I doubt you will be seeing 'hooker day' advertised by any nursing homes.

Lily i'm sorry but I would have to kinda disagree on your opinions. Don't forget even though these are old men we are talking about, they are still men with balls. I know you are a female, so you wouldn't have the slightest idea on how these balls work. Let me try and elaborate for you. There are about 300million souls in the pair of balls that are just screaming to get out. They send signals to the brain. And the brain calculates it, as a means of time to procreate. Just like the animals on heat they procreate. It's pathetic. I experience this on a daily basis. I hate it! I feel like such an animal going through this mundane process. It sux. But perhaps that is just me. In any case going back with these old men, even though they are old, they are still stuck with this horrible ritual. Perhaps may be they should make a drug the kills this 300 millions souls that builds up everyday in our balls. Can you see what I'm getting at?? Perhaps may be I'm over with this human lifeform since i have had so many life times. So please excuse my negativity towards procreation. One way or another these old men need to release these 300 millions souls that is stuck in hiss balls. Be realistic about it, take a step back, have some compassion, and really think what is the best situation for these old men that have this problem.

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Im not gonna touch the Prostitution thing as its illegal in my state so obviously thats not going on.

But when I worked in Nursing Homes I rolled joints for medical marijuana patients with MS poured Whiskey with a doctors Rx. All homes that Im aware of have area designated for Residents to smoke if they so choose (usually outside) One must keep in mind that these are there homes and they live there often till the day they die. It is not uncommon to find the people doing the activities that they pursued during there lifetime before the Nursing Home. Cards are a common commodity on the inside although I will say the game of choice is usually solitaire. Sewing, Small outdoor gardens are sometimes kept among many other activities.

Mind you this is in Nursing Homes a place I wish on no person to have to live and what little I could do to make there lives seem more humane I certainly went out of my way to do. The best part of a day working in that environment is when you can leave and know you made somebodies just a little bit better by a chit chat or just getting them to an activity that they want to do.

I know as I get bit older and wind up getting confined to one of these homes I certainly want to be able to continue the activities I enjoyed in my years growing old as to the best of my abilities. its part of being human.

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It's not prostitution I have a problem with really.

I think it should be totally legalised and brothels etc should be legal.

It would stop the women getting killed by fruitloops. But also

if you were to tax prostitutes and brothels it could give the government

a lot of money.

I also don't have a problem with old people or disabled people sleeping with prostitutes.

If they want to do that and there paying with there money, and the prostitutes are happy

then fair enough.

But I do have a problem with this nursing home.

They are not allowed drugs, gambling, or booze ups in these places.

So why allow prostitution?

but even more disturbing is the staff admit to residents groping staff.

Surely they shouldn't be awarding them with prostitutes. they should be explaining to them that groping is wrong.

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Hey the is nothing wrong with an old dude getting laid or seeing some boobies. At lease they are happy!!!!!!

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I must admit that when I read the thread title I thought the home was prostituting out the residents. :o

But after reading it I have to agree with Lilly... It is not the place of the home to supply the residents with sexual gratification... If the residents want it, then they can make the arraingements themselves or have their families do it for them... If two residents want to engage in sex (and it is medically safe for them to do so) then the home should (IMO) be set up so that they can have the privacy to do so - other than that they are setting themselves up for severe litigation, and (potentially) the residents for serious harm...

Prostitution is also illegal here in my state, so it's a moot point here anyway...

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There are about 300million souls in the pair of balls that are just screaming to get out.

I have a degree in biology. I must have been home sick they day they covered this concept.

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But after reading it I have to agree with Lilly... It is not the place of the home to supply the residents with sexual gratification... If the residents want it, then they can make the arraingements themselves or have their families do it for them... If two residents want to engage in sex (and it is medically safe for them to do so) then the home should (IMO) be set up so that they can have the privacy to do so - other than that they are setting themselves up for severe litigation, and (potentially) the residents for serious harm...

This sounds quite reasonable and is basically my stance on this as well.

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Oh well,if your gonna shuffle off this mortal coil,then go smiling i say.

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