questionmark Posted July 31, 2014 #1 Share Posted July 31, 2014 Intimate details about the private lives of the early American settlers have been uncovered by two historians who unearthed a treasure trove of church documents dating back to the 1700s. The records were buried away in colonial-era Congregational churches across the state of Massachusetts, and include a number of confessions made by members of the congregation, giving a fascinating glimpse into life at the time. They include one by a married couple, Joseph and Abigail Cheyney, from the town of Sturbridge, who “with shame, humiliation and sorrow,” admitted they had sex before their wedding day. Read more 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shrooma Posted July 31, 2014 #2 Share Posted July 31, 2014 Sin, fornication and drunkenness . story of my life..... . 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shrooma Posted July 31, 2014 #3 Share Posted July 31, 2014 QUOTE- a number of confessions made by members of the congregation, giving a fascinating glimpse into life at the time. They include one by a married couple, Joseph and Abigail Cheyney, from the town of Sturbridge, who “with shame, humiliation and sorrow,” admitted they had sex before their wedding day. . aah, such gentler times.... . 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ealdwita Posted July 31, 2014 #4 Share Posted July 31, 2014 Typical Brits.....As soon as they get abroad somewhere, they go barmy! If it ain't Magaluf then it's Sturbridge! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeWitz Posted July 31, 2014 #5 Share Posted July 31, 2014 There never were any "Good old Days." Americans at Thanksgiving now may look a little differently on those Pilgrim fathers and mothers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
questionmark Posted July 31, 2014 Author #6 Share Posted July 31, 2014 There never were any "Good old Days." Americans at Thanksgiving now may look a little differently on those Pilgrim fathers and mothers. Very doubtful, very doubtful. Legends have their social value. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark_Grey Posted July 31, 2014 #7 Share Posted July 31, 2014 Weren't the pilgrims that came over here essentially the "riff-raff" of England? They left for the New World for some religious reasons too, if I remember correctly (I'm probably not remembering correctly.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
questionmark Posted July 31, 2014 Author #8 Share Posted July 31, 2014 Weren't the pilgrims that came over here essentially the "riff-raff" of England? They left for the New World for some religious reasons too, if I remember correctly (I'm probably not remembering correctly.) Most of them already had refuge in the traditionally tolerant Netherlands when they left for America. They just wanted to be British Puritans, not Dutch Puritans. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilly Posted July 31, 2014 #9 Share Posted July 31, 2014 (edited) Some of the pilgrims were 'riff-raff' and some came for religious freedom. It was quite a mixed bunch really. In the beginning they were all just struggling to survive...it was a really hard life in the early days of the Massachusetts Bay Colony. I know quite a bit about this because I live right where it all took place. And we still have a good amount of "sin, fornication, drunkeness" here in Plymouth (just go to 'T-Bones Road House' on a Fri/Sat night and you'll see). Edited July 31, 2014 by Lilly addition 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leonardo Posted July 31, 2014 #10 Share Posted July 31, 2014 (edited) *scribbles another addition to his bucket list* Cheers, Lilly! Edited July 31, 2014 by Leonardo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quiXilver Posted August 1, 2014 #11 Share Posted August 1, 2014 humans... engaging in human behavior... shocking! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hanslune Posted August 1, 2014 #12 Share Posted August 1, 2014 If you are interested in this subject read A Midwife's Tale: The Life of Martha Ballard, Based on Her Diary, 1785-1812 From her records a 1/3 of the women who got married were already pregnant. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quiXilver Posted August 1, 2014 #13 Share Posted August 1, 2014 If you are interested in this subject read A Midwife's Tale: The Life of Martha Ballard, Based on Her Diary, 1785-1812 From her records a 1/3 of the women who got married were already pregnant. yup... this just in... human sexual connection is stronger than intellectual rules and ideas and thankfully so 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toyomotor Posted August 1, 2014 #14 Share Posted August 1, 2014 Sin, fornication and drunkenness are what make life worth living. And if you haven't done at least one of the above, you might just as well be dead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilly Posted August 1, 2014 #15 Share Posted August 1, 2014 Sin, fornication and drunkenness are what make life worth living. And if you haven't done at least one of the above, you might just as well be dead. I'm not so sure about that...then again my ideas on 'sinfulness' certainly differ from that of the Pilgrims. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bendy Demon Posted August 1, 2014 #16 Share Posted August 1, 2014 Sin, fornication and drunkenness are what make life worth living. And if you haven't done at least one of the above, you might just as well be dead. I sincerely hope you are not actually serious with that silly comment because there are plenty of us who have NEVER done these things. (P.S: I am no zombie either because of it.) Typical Brits.....As soon as they get abroad somewhere, they go barmy! If it ain't Magaluf then it's Sturbridge! ......"Barmy". That's cool and funny. I am not from England so those terms are unique to me. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PersonFromPorlock Posted August 1, 2014 #17 Share Posted August 1, 2014 Sin is the raw material of the salvation industry, so the church's report should be taken with the traditional grain of salt. But fornication in 'proper' cultures is hardly unheard of: Nevil Shute wrote about a dirigible-building project (the R-100) he was involved in in the late 1920s which (in rural England) employed young men and women as construction workers equally, with the result that the company then had to hire middle-aged women to act as chaperons in order to hold the dalliances down and get any work done at all. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crabby Kitten Posted August 1, 2014 #18 Share Posted August 1, 2014 Sin, fornication and drunkenness are what make life worth living. And if you haven't done at least one of the above, you might just as well be dead. Using your brain and common sense isn't like being dead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark_Grey Posted August 1, 2014 #19 Share Posted August 1, 2014 Most of them already had refuge in the traditionally tolerant Netherlands when they left for America. They just wanted to be British Puritans, not Dutch Puritans. Gotcha - thanks for that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ealdwita Posted August 1, 2014 #20 Share Posted August 1, 2014 ......"Barmy". That's cool and funny. I am not from England so those terms are unique to me. Ealdwita snippet alert..... The modern word 'barmy'......mad, crazy, goes back to the Anglo Saxon word beorma, the name given to the froth on fermenting malt liquor. By the 15th.Century it was used to described someone who was 'scatterbrained'. If you venture into the UK 'badlands' ie, north of Watford.... ..........You are likely to be called a "barmpot" if the natives consider you to be witless or a fool. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toyomotor Posted August 2, 2014 #21 Share Posted August 2, 2014 I sincerely hope you are not actually serious with that silly comment because there are plenty of us who have NEVER done these things. (P.S: I am no zombie either because of it.) Don't be a pansy, of course I'm serious. Let he who is without sin...etc. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seaturtlehorsesnake Posted August 2, 2014 #22 Share Posted August 2, 2014 If you are interested in this subject read A Midwife's Tale: The Life of Martha Ballard, Based on Her Diary, 1785-1812 From her records a 1/3 of the women who got married were already pregnant. i double recomend this book. it's really a fascinating story, and well told. and yeah, people have always been people. i've got a book somewhere around here that collected court depositions involving marriage in... i want to say 1600's london? there's divorce, bigamy, affairs, the whole lot. good material for a soap opera, really. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toyomotor Posted August 2, 2014 #23 Share Posted August 2, 2014 Man (as in the human race) is an imperfect being. The Seven Deadly Sins have been committed since time immemorial, and will continue to be committed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilly Posted August 2, 2014 #24 Share Posted August 2, 2014 The Seven Deadly Sins have been committed since time immemorial, and will continue to be committed. Yeah, people as a group will do these things. However, as individuals we have the power to choose/control our own actions. I don't really care all that much what "everybody else is doing". I'm going to do what I consider to be right/just/moral. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quiXilver Posted August 2, 2014 #25 Share Posted August 2, 2014 Yeah, people as a group will do these things. However, as individuals we have the power to choose/control our own actions. I don't really care all that much what "everybody else is doing". I'm going to do what I consider to be right/just/moral. while I agree with you in principle, intellectually... your comment makes me think you've never personally known anyone who is psychotic. not much choice there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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