We are meant to listen
If there is not a a relationship with the more irrational and instinctive
sides of the self; a relationship that is not based on fear or
self contempt, then that which is feared and hated will scream
until heard, often after some event that happens to get our attention.
We are meant to listen with compassion to our inner pains,
angers and desires, as if they were little children trying to get our attention