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Entry posted by lilnyca July 3, 2015

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***Hello everybody! I'm decided to turn to this website in hopes of finding some answers to a ghost occurrence I think I'm having in my house. I really just hoping to understand what's going on in my house a little more, that's all.

To start off I'll tell you all a little bit about myself in case it's relevant to what's going on. Anyway my name is Lilith (nice to meet you and thank you for anyone that replies to this). I am 16 and have been living in my current house for my entire life except for my first 9 months. I live with both of my blood parents. We have never experienced a substantial amount of activity save for the occasional (meaning once a year at most) 'sighting'. Lately, as in the last 2 weeks, my family and I have experienced a few odd things that I'm thinking my dad has just chalked up to be weird coincidences or meaningless happenings. I might should mention that my parents and I are firm believers in ghosts, demons, entities, and the like. I know sometimes an increase in tension or family issues/arguements could be an automatic trigger to "awaken" a ghost but I'll note I'm sure this is not the case.

Ok so here's what's being going on. To start off my story I must explain that the ghost in our house I believe to be my (then very close to me) step-brother. In 2004 (I was 5 at the time) my brother passed away. He died in a fatal car accident. He was traveling with his best friend and their friend who was the driver. In the middle of the night on their trip, my brother and his best friend had fallen asleep in the backseat and the weary driver became overcome by sleep as well, swerving in and out of lanes. Sadly, the driver was half asleep and drove off the side of the road, lost control of the car, hit a massive tree, and the car flipped over killing my brother and his best friend. Unfortunately, the driver did survive, but committed suicide 2 years later, consumed with remorse. I should also mention my brother lived with us up until about a year before his passing.

So there's all the back story. The thing is, I've never seen the ghost, but my mom and dad have. My mom and I were speaking about our possible ghost the other day and she says a few months after my brother passed she was in his old room cleaning out his closet and she turned her head and clearly saw his figure, clothes he would've worn, just overall what looked to have to be him walk straight out of our bathroom into the hall and disappear. After that occurrence, we had never seen anything or heard anything since. About a year and a half ago we were all watching TV in our living room and directly behind the TV (in perfect view) is a small office. I saw nothing, but my parents both saw the figure of a man described by both to be in jeans and a tan tshirt with glasses walk through the office and on into the connecting kitchen. (This is a picture of my brother)

So as you can imagine I instantly believed it could be my brother but said nothing. Then a week after that, a week later my mom saw a very similar figure. We have a roughly 4 foot half wall separating our living room and dining room and as my mom came around the wall to walk to the kitchen (which connects to the dining room) she saw the very same figure, or something very similar walk into the kitchen like before and up to our medicine cabinet and disappear. After those 2 occurrences,again about a year and a half back, we didn't see anything. Then. about 2 weeks ago we were watching TV and my dad was sitting at a TV tray right near the half wall and he got very startled and looked at us and asked if we had seen anything. My mother and I both replied no because we hadn't seen whatever had frightened him so much. The entire night he remained on edge so as to where we all tried to forget about it and didn't want to ask him what he saw in fear that he would say maybe he had very clearly seen my brother.

Now I'm going to go off on a little bunny trail now and explain to you why we still 11 years later walk on eggshells around my father when it comes to my brother. Understandably it was the hardest thing he had ever, has ever, and will ever go through. My brother was his firstborn child and his only son. They were tremendously close and my brother's death took everything out of him for a good 7-8 years. Only much more recently has he come to some sort of peace with the hole matter. I was young at the time but I was sharp from a small age and I definitely knew what was going on when it happened. I have very fond memories of my brother even as young as I was and to see my father a lifeless shell of human being was something I'll never be able to forget nor will I, God willing, know what it feels like to have that kind of tragedy come upon you. My brother's passing was a gigantic blow to my family as a whole and years of trying to pick up all the pieces have still not succeeded in putting them all back in place not that I believe they will ever all fit right again.

So lately there have been little things here and there that just maybe make me believe we have a ghost. Last night over dinner away from my house and y dad, my mother and I discussed what's been going on in the house. 3 nights ago I was lying in bed about 95% asleep and I remember I felt someone come up to me, brush my hair back behind my ear, kiss me on the top of my head and pull up the covers a bit. I asked my mom if it was here just to be sure even though I knew it couldn't be. The reason is because the person I felt was facing me and the side of my bed is up against the wall and I was sleeping facing the wall. Unless the person was standing in the wall, what I felt would not have been possible. The reason why I find this relevant is one, because I know I was NOT dreaming, two I know my brother always loved me very much (and even as a child little things would happen in my room that I always told myself he had done because sometimes I would talk to him at night), and three about 4 years ago I moved into his room and I've put my bed more recently in the exact place where his used to be just to feel closer to him. Then, 2 nights ago I had gone to bed and my mother had gone to bed and my dad was in his office and I was already asleep. I was in the state where I'm sleeping but I can still here things. I heard my mom call my name asking if I was in her room. I thought I was hearing things so I ignored her. Then I heard her come into my room and she turned on the lights woke me up and asked me quite sternly if I had gone into her room and to not lie to her or to joke with her. I told her no, I was very much asleep and I had not been in her room. She looked at me a bit puzzled, shaken up maybe, and went back to bed. She then told me last night during our dinner discussion that she definitely felt very suddenly a whoosh of air that one gets and that sense of another person when someone walks into a room. She said it weirded her out a bit but she tried not to let it bother her because she knew I wasn't lying and so it could be our "ghost".

I'm writing on here because I would just like to get some insight from anyone to see if I can confirm my suspicions. Please reply if you are able to help me understand what is going on in my house.