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Things aren't what they seem

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Just Another Girl


Why is it when people divorce they use the kids to get what they want? It is like a game to see who can get the most out of it. Why? I'll tell you why. People can't grow up and see what they are doing to the kids. It's like the kids can't do one thing without hurting one of the parents. They are pulled and thrown around as if they are nothing but something to be owned. 


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Sorry to hear this.  After listening to my  nephew and his horrible experiences when his parents divorce.  Hugs

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Not A Rockstar


It can be tough.

I remember reading an article talking about kids and how they develop as they are raised. They observe their parents, see the answers those live or act by and then choose for or against the observed belief or behavior. They do this in everything. That is how you walk out the door as an adult with the beliefs and values you have as a young adult.

About your only consolation right now is to see what is wrong about this and make sure you never repeat it for your own future kids (possibly), and do what you can to keep yourself afloat and above the b.s.

I am sorry you are dealing with this.

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Daughter of the Nine Moons


Divorce is rarely easy and never fun. There is a world of hurt in broken dreams and parents often do need to step back and look at what they are doing to their kids. I'm very sorry you are going through this Just Another Girl. 

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