ASOP Posted December 20, 2007 #1 Share Posted December 20, 2007 HOW CAN YOU ASK A 16 YR OLD TO BE RESPONSIBE! IF SHE CANT PRACTICE SAFE SEX HOW THE HELL CAN SHE BE RESPONSIBLE AND TAKE CARE (RAISE) A BABY!!!! She is wealthy she will have other people raise this child so stop the bull crap putting her on a pedestal when she should be telling other young girls this is not a good thing!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neognosis Posted December 20, 2007 Author #2 Share Posted December 20, 2007 (edited) HOW CAN YOU ASK A 16 YR OLD TO BE RESPONSIBE! IF SHE CANT PRACTICE SAFE SEX HOW THE HELL CAN SHE BE RESPONSIBLE AND TAKE CARE (RAISE) A BABY I know lots of adults some in their 30's that conceived without meaning to She is wealthy she will have other people raise this child so stop the bull crap putting her on a pedestal when she should be telling other young girls this is not a good thing!!! I would like to tell other young girls that it's ok to NOT have an abortion if you make a mistake and get pregnant I don't want to send the message that NOT having an abortion gets you nothing but ridicule and condemnation so you might as well have one so people don't call you names and try to get you fired from your job If she really wanted to be irresponsible she could have just had an abortion and kept it secret Instead she's lgetting called all sorts of vile nonsense for doing what I think is the right thing in a very bad situation Edited December 20, 2007 by Neognosis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Skeptic Eric Raven Posted December 20, 2007 #3 Share Posted December 20, 2007 I know lots of adults some in their 30's that conceived without meaning to I would like to tell other young girls that it's ok to NOT have an abortion if you make a mistake and get pregnant I don't want to send the message that NOT having an abortion gets you nothing but ridicule and condemnation How about the old saying? "You play, you pay." No excuses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neognosis Posted December 20, 2007 Author #4 Share Posted December 20, 2007 How about the old saying? "You play, you pay." No excuses. Keeping the child is "paying" aborting it would be ducking out on the check Why make it harder for this girl to mother her child? She screwed up what's done is done again, can you explain why conservatives say they want less abortion, but then make abortion the most attractive option? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Skeptic Eric Raven Posted December 20, 2007 #5 Share Posted December 20, 2007 (edited) Keeping the child is "paying" aborting it would be ducking out on the check Why make it harder for this girl to mother her child? She screwed up what's done is done again, can you explain why conservatives say they want less abortion, but then make abortion the most attractive option? I am conservative, but I want choice. If my daughter was pregnant , I would probably want her to have an abortion. Why would having an unwanted preganancy which could poetentially ruin a kid's life, be an attractive option? I think abortion would be much more attractive to a teenager. Edited December 20, 2007 by Eric Raven The Skeptic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ASOP Posted December 20, 2007 #6 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Will you please stop throwing the abortion word out there....man you have said it util I think maybe she should have. First I myself NEVER said she should get an abortion I said she was stupid,not responsible,wealthy and will have others raise her child. Every word you say has abortion in it. Give it a rest alot of us are saying this is a bad example for youg girls and she should not be allowed to continue her show...I got a headache. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neognosis Posted December 20, 2007 Author #7 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Will you please stop throwing the abortion word out there No, that is the central point of my argument, which is if you want there to be less abortions, you have to stop condemning and ostracizing kids who have made a mistake. My point is that ostracizing unwed pregnant women just makes them more likely to have an abortion It doesn't make sense to me how some conservatives claim to be against abortion yet do things that drive people towards having one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulFire Posted December 20, 2007 #8 Share Posted December 20, 2007 (edited) No, that is the central point of my argument, which is if you want there to be less abortions, you have to stop condemning and ostracizing kids who have made a mistake. My point is that ostracizing unwed pregnant women just makes them more likely to have an abortion It doesn't make sense to me how some conservatives claim to be against abortion yet do things that drive people towards having one. i don't think it's condemning or ostracizing. even at the young age of 16, she herself probably completely understands the ramifications of what has happened to her. i bet she realizes the bad message it sends to all of her young adoring fans. if/when she loses her show, she will probably be less offended & upset about it than you seem to be. Edited December 20, 2007 by klc9100 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Cheese~ Posted December 20, 2007 #9 Share Posted December 20, 2007 that's sad for her.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ASOP Posted December 20, 2007 #10 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Cheese go home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Serenity Posted December 20, 2007 #11 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Jamie is keeping the child. I think she shouldn't be on Disney anymore. >_<" I do agree with that. As for her boyfriend he might be thrown in jail. And charged with some form of rape. Jamie told her fans to wait for marriage before having kids. First, why didn't she follow her own advice? Second, she probably decided it was best to wait. When I first heard this, I wanted to slap that little brat. Across the face so hard. >_<" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stixxman Posted December 20, 2007 #12 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Then you better get in line and smack the entire sexual education system in the states because she is hardly the only 16 year old expectant mother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fylgja Posted December 20, 2007 #13 Share Posted December 20, 2007 I don't worry about this sh**. I got my own problems. Who cares if Spears little sister got knocked up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mbyte Posted December 20, 2007 #14 Share Posted December 20, 2007 (edited) I have a feeling she'll be better than britney and I think she'll handle herself well. I feel that the father will stay with her and this situation isen't as bad as it seems. I think it just looks bad becasue of britney's history on top of jamie's mishap. The secret to being a roll model is not being one, just be yourself. Edited December 20, 2007 by Mbyte Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissMelsWell Posted December 20, 2007 #15 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Honestly? Mrs. Spears (their mother) should have her head examined. Something went wretchedly wrong in that family. Now, I emmancipated my daughter when she was 15, she skipped off to college at that age, and I no longer had any say in what she did. However, I obviously did something right because she never got into any kind of trouble at all. (no sex, no drinking, no smoking, no drugs!) If Little Miss Spears were REALLY responsible and mature, she'd have worked out a way to quietly take a sabatical from Disney and slip off and have that baby and give it up for adoption--other hollyweird types have done it before. There's no way that kid is going to turn out normal or OK. Just look at these girls role models. Their parents have nearly destroyed them. I rarely blame parents for much of anything... but someone did those girls wrong, and I'm willing to bet it's mommy dearest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stixxman Posted December 20, 2007 #16 Share Posted December 20, 2007 I have a feeling she'll be better than britney and I think she'll handle herself well. I feel that the father will stay with her and this situation isen't as bad as it seems. I think it just looks bad becasue of britney's history on top of jamie's mishap. The secret to being a roll model is not being one, just be yourself. I know how this goes, my older brother preceded me in school, and when I showed up all i heard was how I wasn't as well behaved as my brother. Its not my fault he never had friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m. Moe Posted December 20, 2007 #17 Share Posted December 20, 2007 This is why I pity these "teen role models". **** up once, even though thousands of other people the same age do the same thing, half the Western media calls you a wh*re. Teens shouldn't really be role models for children, they make mistakes, it's part of growing up. Speers is just lucky she doesn't have to dropout of school and screw up her whole life like so many other pregnant teens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stixxman Posted December 20, 2007 #18 Share Posted December 20, 2007 im just sad that 'famous' people are considered role models, their only qualification for giving advice is that they are famous. Its hard to find positive female role models for my daughters. So far all I have is a couple of astronauts and a few successful business ladies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mbyte Posted December 20, 2007 #19 Share Posted December 20, 2007 (edited) I have faith she will do good. what about me i'm a good role model Edited December 20, 2007 by Mbyte Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Skeptic Eric Raven Posted December 20, 2007 #20 Share Posted December 20, 2007 I have faith she will do good. Faith and a quarter will buy you a cup of coffe. More than likely her child will be screwed up to. You can't live that family lifestyle without there being problems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m. Moe Posted December 20, 2007 #21 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Faith and a quarter will buy you a cup of coffe. More than likely her child will be screwed up to. You can't live that family lifestyle without there being problems. Especially when mainstream media and "concerned" parents keep reminding you that you are "America's favourate mistake". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shalott Posted December 21, 2007 #22 Share Posted December 21, 2007 I'm glad she's keeping it, and I think she knows she has alot to prove to the world in terms of being a parent because this is the Spears' family we're talking about. Her church seems to be standing beside her however (but then again she is famous). Young Hollywood seems to have a tendency to pass time with sex, drugs and alcohol, so to be honest I really wasn't suprised to hear Jamie Lynn was pregnant. I was surprised however that she told OK magazine that she was surprised by the pregnancy... I mean surely everyone knows that babies are conceived through sex, and even protected sex carries a risk? If you're sexually active, then it really shouldn't be a big surprise if you happen to get knocked up. Anyway, it doesn't seem to me that Jamie Lynn is being as condemned as her mother is, and even the baby's father seems to be getting alot of negative attention. Oh, and I don't think Disney will fire her, only because they didn't fire that High School Musical girl for those nudie pics that didn't exactly scream "virgin." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Skeptic Eric Raven Posted December 21, 2007 #23 Share Posted December 21, 2007 I'm glad she's keeping it, and I think she knows she has alot to prove to the world in terms of being a parent because this is the Spears' family we're talking about. Her church seems to be standing beside her however (but then again she is famous). Young Hollywood seems to have a tendency to pass time with sex, drugs and alcohol, so to be honest I really wasn't suprised to hear Jamie Lynn was pregnant. I was surprised however that she told OK magazine that she was surprised by the pregnancy... I mean surely everyone knows that babies are conceived through sex, and even protected sex carries a risk? If you're sexually active, then it really shouldn't be a big surprise if you happen to get knocked up. Anyway, it doesn't seem to me that Jamie Lynn is being as condemned as her mother is, and even the baby's father seems to be getting alot of negative attention. Oh, and I don't think Disney will fire her, only because they didn't fire that High School Musical girl for those nudie pics that didn't exactly scream "virgin." Lets make a bet about that. You name the terms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulFire Posted December 21, 2007 #24 Share Posted December 21, 2007 ya know, as screwed-up as brittney is, you would think the parents would have went above & beyond to try to "normalize" the others. i guess not. she may turn out to be even more screwed-up (she's gettin' an early start at it). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shalott Posted December 21, 2007 #25 Share Posted December 21, 2007 Lets make a bet about that. You name the terms. not a chance, cause I'll probably lose! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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