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Do you mean for a relationship, or for a sexual partner?

I have to be honest and blunt with you, if you are claiming that if sofia vergara was not up to your standards for intelligence, then you would not find her attractive, I would think that you were not being honest with yourself. I mean, I have been attracted to women and when their personalities turned out to be horrible, I was not interested in pursuing a relationship with them, but I was still physically attracted to them.

What are your thoughts?

The question was "could you walk away from her?", I answered said question. And yes for either. I like some intelligence in my sexual partners as well. Physical attraction alone is just not enough for me, sexually or relationship wise. If this is something you don't understand, so be it.

I'm not really inclined to explain it on this forum anyway ^_^

And please do not make any assumptions about me, since you don't know me.

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I guess according to TheSearcher's sig reading is fundamental.

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That is an actual law librarian BTW.

I kinda understand his POV in wanting to be able to connect on a very deep level before even thinking about giving in to lust just because it makes it so much better. Not necessarily on an intellectual level for me but more on an emotional level where I can feel accepted and know that someone cares for me deeply.

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I guess according to TheSearcher's sig reading is fundamental.

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That is an actual law librarian BTW.

I kinda understand his POV in wanting to be able to connect on a very deep level before even thinking about giving in to lust just because it makes it so much better. Not necessarily on an intellectual level for me but more on an emotional level where I can feel accepted and know that someone cares for me deeply.

Damn, being in the office I can't see the picture. I'll check it when I get back home ;) .

Basically, you're quite correct. I can appreciate physical beauty as much as the next guy, don't get me wrong, but that alone does not make a person attractive to me. Unlike you it's more on an intellectual level than emotional, but in essence it's the same.

Maybe I'm just weird that way, who knows... :P

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So many things can make a person attractive to me, so many people are attractive or have something attractive about them....so that part I cannot understand. Even so just because someone is attractive does not mean you instantly want to sleep with them, you could I mean, it just wouldn't be as fulfilling after the fact.

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There is a pornographic video of kim kardashian. You all will have to find it for yourselves though.

It was in the cupboard on the left of your tv right? I will check there.

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I <3 Fatties!

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Sorry I just burst out laughing and scared my dog :lol:

I'm not quite a fatty but this is similar to my shape (sorry Rosewin I'm not skinny and lanky but I am tall!)

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Sorry I just burst out laughing and scared my dog :lol:

I'm not quite a fatty but this is similar to my shape (sorry Rosewin I'm not skinny and lanky but I am tall!)

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To much clothing can't really tell, could you loosen a button or two or better yet pm me a full frontal LOL I'm kidding, oh crap why do I find it hard to lie, send me the full frontal :P

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To much clothing can't really tell, could you loosen a button or two or better yet pm me a full frontal LOL I'm kidding, oh crap why do I find it hard to lie, send me the full frontal :P

No Thong!! :lol:

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No Thong!! :lol:

Why do I always get teased :lol: Better yet why do I think I'll get a good PM :w00t: with nakeditity.

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To much clothing can't really tell, could you loosen a button or two or better yet pm me a full frontal LOL I'm kidding, oh crap why do I find it hard to lie, send me the full frontal :P

Hell, at least you're (kinda), honest about it :w00t: Just make sure you don't start drooling too, otherwise you'll have to wear a bib, which would look silly :P

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Sorry I just burst out laughing and scared my dog :lol:

I'm not quite a fatty but this is similar to my shape (sorry Rosewin I'm not skinny and lanky but I am tall!)

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OK sister I want the PM with the other pic ....pleaseeeeeeee :wub:

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Even so just because someone is attractive does not mean you instantly want to sleep with them, you could I mean, it just wouldn't be as fulfilling after the fact.

I would like to point out that for some people, myself included, casual sex is fulfilling in a different way. Some people don't seek, nor need, deep emotional fulfillment in every sexual encounter. Some of us just like to have sex and enjoy it, whether we are in love with the person or not.

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why do I think I'll get a good PM :w00t: with nakeditity.

Because I am about to send you one :tu:

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Why do I always get teased :lol: Better yet why do I think I'll get a good PM :w00t: with nakeditity.

umm no. That's what your imagination is for :lol:

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OK sister I want the PM with the other pic ....pleaseeeeeeee :wub:

The half nekkie one? You already saw it on my myspace :lol:

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The half nekkie one? You already saw it on my myspace :lol:

looks arent everything sure it might get me to look a second time or a third. but more important is honesty and how someone treats people.

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looks arent everything sure it might get me to look a second time or a third. but more important is honesty and how someone treats people.

danielost I agree with you there 100% on the honesty and the way someone is treated.....looks will fade in the later years and what do one have left then ???

I was just being a smart a$$ when I asked her to see the nekiddd pic ....that and I'm a chick :ph34r::P

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LOL, y'all can take that up with my brother in law. I don't even watch football! :P But when Man U. wins, it's cause he's wearing his lucky pants. ;)

When scum Manure win, it is because there is too much evil in the world.

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When scum Manure win, it is because there is too much evil in the world.

There's absolutely nothing in that post to suggest that you take football very seriously :P

But then again, it is those gits, so I'm not really complaining :lol:

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I'm not quite a fatty but this is similar to my shape (sorry Rosewin I'm not skinny and lanky but I am tall!)

Aww we cannot be everyone's type or have everyone find us attractive but that does not mean people cannot like each other as friends either way.

I would like to point out that for some people, myself included, casual sex is fulfilling in a different way. Some people don't seek, nor need, deep emotional fulfillment in every sexual encounter. Some of us just like to have sex and enjoy it, whether we are in love with the person or not.

Have you ever had the deep emotional fulfillment just to compare? Just wondering. I am sure you are like most guys though, I've just always wanted to feel wanted first before anything.

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That oval shape around her tummy is just so perfect!!!

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Have you ever had the deep emotional fulfillment just to compare? Just wondering. I am sure you are like most guys though, I've just always wanted to feel wanted first before anything.

Feeling wanted? There's different levels of that, you can feel wanted just for a sexual encounter, as neognosis is alluding too. Have you never had a women just want you, for one specific reason at that moment, without there being some deep emotional attachment involved?

The above question sounds like a criticism, which it isn't, just can't think of a better way of wording it.

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I have but that does not mean I wanted them back automatically. I have had casual affairs but like I mentioned earlier, empty emotional feeling afterward even if the physical connection was fine.

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