What is the worst thing you can do to a man?

[manbearpigg]

its rather vague but:

What would cause the most physical pain, and mental anguish to a person?

We can all agree that both physical and mental pains are equally bad? (if not state your case)

Lets keep it as tasteful as possible?

[aquatus1]

I remember back in college I once heard that a woman's greatest fear is rape, while a man's greatest fear is to be laughed at by women.

[Taun]

I remember back in college I once heard that a woman's greatest fear is rape, while a man's greatest fear is to be laughed at by women.

I don't fear being laughed at by women.. .I was married after all... Like I told a friend once... "I fully understand the word 'NO'... I have no problem with it as I have had a lot of experience with it - in several languages... It's 'Yes' that seems to be the problem"...

I don't know about other men, but my greatest fear is that I might fail someone who desperately needs me to not fail...

[Eldorado]

Hide the TV remote control.

[Hasina]

Lie.

[Ashotep]

Delete all his porn.

[Frank Merton]

Deleting his porn is probably doing him a favor; now he can go out and download new stuff.

(Psychologists understand why some men download porn, its the internet mental equivalent of scoring, although much easier. There is of course no real reason to have it on one's hard drive, and often a lot of reasons not to.)

[Frank Merton]

I think the worst thing that can happen to us happens all the time -- people suffer and die and we are helpless to do anything.

[Taun]

Lie.

Welcome back Hasina...

[Simbi Laveau]

For women ,def rape .For a man ,telling him his manhood is pathetic .

In both cases ,hurting their kids

[mysticwerewolf]

what's the worst thing you can do to a man??? Make him feel worthless, un-needed and un-necessary ( not that most would ever admit it) "All he is, is a paycheck"

[Coffey]

Disloyalty probably covers most of the harshest things. Men value loyalty a lot.

[onereaderone]

there are only two true motivators... that is to say , make a person get up and move... pain and fear.... there is no pain so great that the body can not endure it - given hope . there is not a pain so small that the mind can learn to tolarate - with out hope .

there is no fear so great that knowledge can not reduce it to calm understanding . fear is inexsaustable in the presents of ignorance and pride .

fear is knowing only that deadly harm comes from >that direction ... and you can not get out of its way ... you can not stop it ... and it comes for you soon .

the less you know of a thing the greater that fear .... death is over rated, there are so meny things that are far worse than death ,

as any person skilled in torcher will tell you , they all talk , its biology not will power or honor . the thing to master is hope, then pain does the rest .

knowledge is the key to fear , the more you know about tigers , the less fearful they are to you... right up to the moment it eats you .

fear is gods way of warning you about tigers before you get eaten.

[Kowalski]

Delete all his porn.

Yep, that's definitely my husband's worst fear...

[Ealdwita]

what's the worst thing you can do to a man??? Make him feel worthless, un-needed and un-necessary ( not that most would ever admit it) "All he is, is a paycheck"

That's the longest definition of marriage I've ever read!

[mysticwerewolf]

LOL..... Engaged a couple times but never been married.

Edited April 9, 2013 by mysticwerewolf

[Timothy]

Making them witness the complete and utter violation and destruction of everything and everyone they hold dear while they are powerless to stop it.

Torture/murder/rape etc. The most utterly disgusting and horrific acts imaginable. Things you would never want to see happen to any living thing...

Pretty dark, but you started the topic...

[BiffSplitkins]

Disloyalty probably covers most of the harshest things. Men value loyalty a lot.

Even Dante's Inferno refers to betrayal in 'The ninth circle: treachery'.

[Ealdwita]

Serve him quiche!

[White Crane Feather]

I tend to focus around my family. With that said I think the worst thing you can do to Somone has to do with doing something to the people that person loves. But I worry why the question is asked in the first place

[JC2]

Believe it or not, now I know this might sound crazy, in all honesty, and I pick my words carefully, you might not want to know this but we are all different, what is one man’s passion could be another man’s poison...

It is all a matter of taste, remember though if it doesn't kill him/her they could just come back stronger, and we don't want that now do we...

As for me, hmm, has to be honesty, when you know just by the look in the eye they mean it, ouch...

[Frank Merton]

Well we've gone around this before; serving durian, or even bringing some of it into the dining room, far exceeds any quiche in evility.

[FlyingAngel]

For girl is raped by her own father/brother. For man probably hurt his most loved one. But I guess it depends on people, some don't care at all.

[White Crane Feather]

For girl is raped by her own father/brother. For man probably hurt his most loved one. But I guess it depends on people, some don't care at all.

That's interesting. I would think that a man/boy being raped by a a father or brother would be just as traumatizing. And Somone doing something to a mothers child would trump both.

Edited April 9, 2013 by Seeker79

[CRIPTIC CHAMELEON]

Betrayal especially when its your best friend and partner/girlfriend/wife etc etc.