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To be as brief as possible, I'm in love with a spirit I have communicated with on a Ouija board. I'm very in love.  he died before I fell for him, I've been in love for a while now.

so I used the board (among other things) to see if I could reach him in some way. And so, from the board, I got words that have meaning to many things having to do with the situation, about me and him.. It shocked me, and even scared me..but amazed me and touched my heart all at the same time.

 

But basically, there is a strong connection. And I'm struggling with my heart and mind. I'm happy, I feel close to him. But other times, I just feel my skeptic side and feel I'm crazy for letting my emotions go so far like this to the point I have anxiety and panic over it. 

 

 But it feels like a relationship, I try to forget and do other things, but it's something I can't stay away from.

Has anyone else here had a similar experience?

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What exactly is this "spirit" saying to you? 

My advice, stop this. Go out with friends. Try meeting real people that you could have a relationship with.

 

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On 2017-09-19 at 1:42 PM, RomanticRoses said:

To be as brief as possible, I'm in love with a spirit I have communicated with on a Ouija board. I'm very in love.  he died before I fell for him, I've been in love for a while now.

so I used the board (among other things) to see if I could reach him in some way. And so, from the board, I got words that have meaning to many things having to do with the situation, about me and him.. It shocked me, and even scared me..but amazed me and touched my heart all at the same time.

 

But basically, there is a strong connection. And I'm struggling with my heart and mind. I'm happy, I feel close to him. But other times, I just feel my skeptic side and feel I'm crazy for letting my emotions go so far like this to the point I have anxiety and panic over it. 

 

 But it feels like a relationship, I try to forget and do other things, but it's something I can't stay away from.

Has anyone else here had a similar experience?

If this "relationship" stops you from having a normal human life then it's not a good thing.
It's one thing if you're inlove with someone who has passed on but you continue to have your job, spending time with family and friends. But if this love consumes you, let it go.

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Does the feeling seem 'unearthly'? The kind that gives you over pouring joy which you think you haven't, will not, ever find in our world, with our kind? And even if you have had boyfriends before, it doesn't really feel anything like that. It's romantic and pure, like a gush of clear water, and it really feels so different and incomparable.

I don't mean to encourage your relationship with this 'spirit', but the truth is I can somehow relate

Sometime ago, I used to love someone too.

Your medium is the Ouija board. At least, something physical is intervening. Mine was through dreams, and as much as I wanted to follow what my head says and quit with what everyone calls "silly fantasy", I can't. Because I'm the bridge. And what's worse is, unlike yours that has physical intervention, I've got no proof and am close to being tagged as someone with mental disorder.

I have a boyfriend in real life, and he's very much aware of all the weird things going on with me. He's gone through a lot of crazy things like falling stuff at home and dogs randomly barking so mad at nothing. Lucky me, the weird things didn't stop him from loving me. He is very supportive and close to being ideal. But there are things you can't stop from touching you, say, feelings.

I have always had recurrent and sequential dreams since I was a kid. It wasn't a yearly thing, it's more of like daily. The characters in my dreams grew up with me. Nightmares were some sort of a burden but dreams were okay. Apart from leaving me curious and puzzled, they're okay. However, there's this guy who started showing up in my dreams. When the dream would turn into a nightmare, he'll stop the bad things and prevent the dream from going dark. He saves the dream, and me from the dread. He keeps on appearing for several months as a guardian, until one day he started holding my hand and staring at me with a broken heart. I only saw him laugh once, but I knew he used to laugh so much. I don't know how, but I just knew. And I think I started to miss him laugh.

Fast forward, I built a life in dreams. A community, a home, feelings and a future. My bf in real life knows what's going on because I talk to him everyday, and he watches me sleep at night. There are times when I suddenly wake up and talk to him in foreign languages. We keep track of it and find a way to translate it as soon as we're awake. That's how we knew I was 'the bridge', and a lot more stuff about 'the other world'.

I was so into this spirit and the feelings. Came to a point that I slept all day to live "there".

But I have people I care for here. I knew I needed to stop. So I did, even if I can't.

For almost three days, I didn't sleep. Hence, I wasn't able to meet him.

The thing is, since I wouldn't go to his realm, he decided to go to mine. Things began floating, flying, THROWN. I knew, it was him.

My bf asked my mom to stay with me for a couple of days while he's at work. The situation got worse that much. My mother saw things getting thrown by no one too.

I ended up talking to him and telling him we can meet in dreams. Things started not to float -- sorry, I don't know how to call it. And as I was expecting to see him again in dreams, he never showed up like he used to. He shows up but only as a mere passerby or a by watcher. And every time, he'd look at me, smile and let me go.

If you'd ask me if I miss him, I would have to say YES. STILL. VERY MUCH. But there are bonds which can never be, as much as there are things which we can't explain.

RomanticRoses, I know that the feeling is real. It's intense, so much that you'd want to jump in and have a life with "them". BUT you have things and people you care for here.

A very tough fight and a very long story, I had my self checked by specialists and turned out I'm okay, which leaves me with the notion that "he" is real. Leaving out the doubt of sanity, and say that we are alike somehow, even if he is real, you may want to re-evaluate things.

It would hurt, but your life is here. And his, wherever he may be. :(

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I've heard of long distance relationships but this is a new one for me :D

on a serious note be careful with the Ouija board, you're never really sure who you are communicating with. some entities will lie to gain your trust. 

Ive seen one of those boards work and as crazy as it sounds it knew answers only I would know. I was a guest  that night and didn't know anyone there but the friend I was with and she didn't know host very long before. 

Im a very skeptical person and that night kept me wondering a long time after. We all wrote a question on a piece of paper and tossed in a hat and then they were pulled and answered. In my opinion it would be extremely hard to fake the response I got.

i think it would be best for you to just keep your past memories as they are and find people in real life to do things with and enjoy life.

wish you well and happy.

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What you're doing is just communing with your own psyche. 

Put the board away and go live your life. 

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Ouija boards are not some form of communication, they are a toy designed years ago. 

No more spiritual than a PlayStation. 

Get a grip and move on in life.

 

 

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5 hours ago, Redefining Success said:

Ouija boards are not some form of communication, they are a toy designed years ago. 

No more spiritual than a PlayStation. 

Get a grip and move on in life.

 

 

I don't mean to ruffle feathers on the Ouija board topic and I realize it's very difficult to find real fact and prove. 

In the short time I've been here many here want proven video evidence of UFO's , ghosts, Bigfoot ect. I say either take your own time to sit and wait for that three seconds of video and have people you don't know on the net  tell you it was photoshopped.

as far as a game,  if Toys R us and Parker bothers sells it to make a profit and  and they seen the opportunity to make a dollar cheaply with little expenses and good return for the same concept of something folklore says has merit and you don't have to make yourself,  do you have a mechanic to fix your car or do you do major repairs yourself. 

For people that aren't good at fixing or building things themselves Parker brothers filled the gap of something old and the concept is still sellable. that's now more easily available than making yourself.

maybe we could reintroduce the Pet Rock to the public. Killer profit margin for a rock in the backyard,  Shows my age. But a rock is a rock, but that board I believe falls in the unexplained of benefit of doubt.

 

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I very much recommend stopping all contact with this "spirit."

It's unhealthy, with a Ouija Board, and think about it.......it's not normal at all.

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Do you know multiple languages? This life in your dreams, how in depth is the story? 

You have other friends there as well? 

Have you tried telling your dream guy he is causing you problems? Or asked him what its all about?

 

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On 19/09/2017 at 9:42 PM, RomanticRoses said:

To be as brief as possible, I'm in love with a spirit I have communicated with on a Ouija board. I'm very in love.  he died before I fell for him, I've been in love for a while now.

so I used the board (among other things) to see if I could reach him in some way. And so, from the board, I got words that have meaning to many things having to do with the situation, about me and him.. It shocked me, and even scared me..but amazed me and touched my heart all at the same time.

 

But basically, there is a strong connection. And I'm struggling with my heart and mind. I'm happy, I feel close to him. But other times, I just feel my skeptic side and feel I'm crazy for letting my emotions go so far like this to the point I have anxiety and panic over it. 

 

 But it feels like a relationship, I try to forget and do other things, but it's something I can't stay away from.

Has anyone else here had a similar experience?

Honestly, I really feel that you should consider seeking some help. I think your GP might be a good place to start. I'm not judging you, but this is an extremely unhealthy way of living your life. 

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On 19. 9. 2017 at 1:42 PM, RomanticRoses said:

To be as brief as possible, I'm in love with a spirit I have communicated with on a Ouija board. I'm very in love.  he died before I fell for him, I've been in love for a while now...................m.

Has anyone else here had a similar experience?

I think that Ouija is for nothing, it could be deception. For comunication with spiritual entity is very good meditation. But, i would say better is contatct with higher spirtual beings. And until such being do not come in visibly form, so it  may not be real.

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Don't become too obsessed with this spirit. Spirits try to manipulate people for personal gain, especially the emotionally weak. They'll find the weakest link (your heart in this case) and use it to manipulate you for their bidding. Along with this, you'll never experience natural love that requires touch, sound, and sight to truly release that feeling of love in your brain. 

If you feel as though you're so unwanted that no one alive would want to date you and that you had to turn to a dead spirit manifesting through a board, you've got to find better people to be around. It isn't healthy.

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I think I'd just give it all a miss and get on with my life ...... harsh but true 

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It seems to me that the OP probably wont be back at this stage. As maybe they didn't like the advise / answers. It's also possible that the OP started this thread just to have a good laugh at the time.  

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On October 17, 2017 at 7:24 PM, Astra. said:

It seems to me that the OP probably wont be back at this stage. As maybe they didn't like the advise / answers. It's also possible that the OP started this thread just to have a good laugh at the time.  

Not at all, it's a paranormal forum, and I needed help and advice. If these type of questions are a "joke" to you, then why do you even post here?

anyway, thanks for the answers to everyone, still experiencing this..still have questions..

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33 minutes ago, RomanticRoses said:

Not at all, it's a paranormal forum, and I needed help and advice. If these type of questions are a "joke" to you, then why do you even post here?

There is no need to get surly. The forum often gets 'hit and run' posters that are never seen again. There are also the occasional trolls whom pop in just to cause a stir. I already gave you my advise as other folk had...so it's up to you what you do with it. Iv'e noticed that you have started another similar thread, why ? 

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2 minutes ago, Astra. said:

There is no need to get surly. The forum often gets 'hit and run' posters that are never seen again. There are also the occasional trolls whom pop in just to cause a stir. I already gave you my advise as other folk had...so it's up to you what you do with it. Iv'e noticed that you have started another similar thread, why ? 

That's easy. Didn't get the answers they wanted. 

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1 minute ago, XenoFish said:

That's easy. Didn't get the answers they wanted. 

Exactly...

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What was the other question? I only saw the one in your original post. 

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17 minutes ago, RomanticRoses said:

I'm glad you two troll alter egos are enjoying your back and forth with each other. It's OK, I'm more amused than insulted. :)

Well, we are not trolls RomanticR. I can assure you of that. Surely you understand tho, that some folk may have a difficult time trying to comprehend about a relationship that is apparently going on between yourself and a spirit that you say you're in love with. Speaking for myself, I have never heard of this type of thing before. Is this relationship between you and the spirit, a more romantic one, sexual one or both ?... that's if you don't mind me asking. 

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Speaking of ghosts, who can forget this tender love scene in the movie 'Ghost' before Sam actually became one. 

 

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I don't see how it's any of your business what kind of relationship I have with him at all.

yes, we are in love, that is all I'll say regarding that.

My husband says this..

-You coward to think she is imagining, you know she isn't. Dead people talk too. And someday, you know that will be you too.

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I can start rhyming things off the top of my head, never before have things been so unsaid..

Roses are red, violets are blue, HE knows who you are too.

Violets are red, lips are sour, I could keep rhyming every hour.

He is in my head you see, so now you know, it isn't only me.

 

I used to be an instrumental composer, with no lyric to write, but heck, now I can rhyme ALL day and night. :)

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Go see a doctor. 

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