+Nuclear Wessel Posted January 23, 2021 #301 Share Posted January 23, 2021 2 minutes ago, Sherapy said: I remember back when MW argued like this that his dog was the eye witness to the light beam who took away his nicotine addiction. This then morphed to he had eye witnesses, but they are no longer alive. I find it interesting how he claims that he has "nothing to prove" yet issues long-winded responses like a man who does. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Walker Posted January 24, 2021 #302 Share Posted January 24, 2021 2 hours ago, Sherapy said: Great post, That MW emphasized and claimed not feeling traumatized or have any emotions over such a loss of community members that “I knew my whole life” while at the same time not wanting to lord over anyone that they had SDA box seats, hence (in essence suspending the need to proclaim we are so special to be saved by god), while others perished is survivors guilt (rationalizing). I concur this could be read as he is projecting his repressed emotions, not that he doesn’t have them. The nature of defense mechanisms ( unless you have had lots of therapy or training) is that while they are hidden from our own view, DM’s are observable to others, Just my two cents. And worth even less than that . I dont respond to things as you do You had a traumatic childhood. I did not. You were raised to respond emotionally. I was raised to respond rationally My childhood was filed with love and the time and effort of others to care for me teach me and strengthen me In large part yours was not. Where i was built up you were often pulled down All this is from your own posts here about your younger years You have done a good job overcoming that childhood, in large part due to your grandmothers love, but it is still there deep inside you ,as is my own childhood I am not emotionless, but I choose emotional responses which are productive and constructive to me and to others My wife was much the same as me, although she was very scared as the fire was about to hit. She has never cried or shown any response that others might see as normal or necessary but that is normal for her, and thus quite healthy. We simply were NOT traumatised as others were However for years afterwards she needed to know where i was, and be in contact with me (I think because she knew that if i had not been home that day she would have died ) She was the one who always wanted to live on a farm, and she spent a lot of time and effort on the house, animals and garden, while i was teaching She felt the loss of her home more than i felt the loss of our house Of course ive thought through the analysis you presented along with many others It is simply false It is how YOU think and respond, not how i do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Walker Posted January 24, 2021 #303 Share Posted January 24, 2021 (edited) 32 minutes ago, Nuclear Wessel said: I find it interesting how he claims that he has "nothing to prove" yet issues long-winded responses like a man who does. True when questioned i try to explain. its part of my nature both personally and by profession However i noted tha t since Friday night i have spent over 6 hours responding to this thread mostly to people who choose not to believe my responses So I am going to take a break for a while. Too many other fun things and responsibilities in real life to waste time in totally non productive discussions Please feel free to take up any of the suggestions i made, and until you can prove i have said anything untrue, don't claim that i have. You will only end up embarrassing yourself, like another poster did, who claimed a whale had NEVER been trapped in tuna pens in Boston Bay and that i was lying about it ever happening I could look out our window and see the council office in Lincoln so I KNOW we could be seen from there Sure there have been Norfolk island Pine trees on the foreshore for many years (they are only slightly younger than I am but their shape and spacing mkes it quite possible to see through them (but as i said i dont KNOW where Peter was speaking from. It is logical that, as the mayor, on such a day he would be in his office in the council chambers, both receiving information and speaking with media from all over Australia (He already had a high media profile) Here is a quite recent photo of the foreshore .As you can see there are gaps between the trees, especially at the second story level where a view to the north is available Edited January 24, 2021 by Mr Walker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Sherapy Posted January 24, 2021 #304 Share Posted January 24, 2021 (edited) 39 minutes ago, Mr Walker said: And worth even less than that . I dont respond to things as you do You had a traumatic childhood. I did not. You were raised to respond emotionally. I was raised to respond rationally My childhood was filed with love and the time and effort of others to care for me teach me and strengthen me In large part yours was not. Where i was built up you were often pulled down All this is from your own posts here about your younger years You have done a good job overcoming that childhood, in large part due to your grandmothers love, but it is still there deep inside you ,as is my own childhood I am not emotionless, but I choose emotional responses which are productive and constructive to me and to others My wife was much the same as me, although she was very scared as the fire was about to hit. She has never cried or shown any response that others might see as normal or necessary but that is normal for her, and thus quite healthy. We simply were NOT traumatised as others were However for years afterwards she needed to know where i was, and be in contact with me (I think because she knew that if i had not been home that day she would have died ) She was the one who always wanted to live on a farm, and she spent a lot of time and effort on the house, animals and garden, while i was teaching She felt the loss of her home more than i felt the loss of our house Of course ive thought through the analysis you presented along with many others It is simply false It is how YOU think and respond, not how i do Well, your wife is is not you, she has her own autonomy and right to dignity and she does have deep emotions. Think back to the circumstances you met under, her fiancé had died. You said she was crying on the swing. Lots of women do not share their feelings with their husbands, not that they do not have them. Edited January 24, 2021 by Sherapy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habitat Posted January 24, 2021 #305 Share Posted January 24, 2021 I do hope Mr Walker doesn't fall under a bus or encounter some other serious misadventure that prevents him posting, as the tragics of the "team" will have no-one to take their insecurities out on ! Seriously, what was that word I used to describe the situation ? I think it was cathexis. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted January 24, 2021 #306 Share Posted January 24, 2021 (edited) 24 minutes ago, Mr Walker said: You will only end up embarrassing yourself, like another poster did, who claimed a whale had NEVER been trapped in tuna pens in Boston Bay and that i was lying about it ever happening Was it Chuck? He goes into plenty of details re the situation. Apparently there are two different recollections of the event in question. He also apologised to our esteemed friend @Habitat That was a thread for the ages. Needs to be saved in some kind of an archive. A real treat. Edited January 24, 2021 by Nuclear Wessel 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will Due Posted January 24, 2021 #307 Share Posted January 24, 2021 25 minutes ago, Habitat said: cathexis. It sure is entertaining and I'm certain Mr Walker will agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Walker Posted January 24, 2021 #308 Share Posted January 24, 2021 19 minutes ago, Sherapy said: Well, your wife is is not you, she has her own autonomy and right to dignity and she does have deep emotions. Think back to the circumstances you met under, her fiancé had died. You said she was crying on the swing. Lots of women do not share their feelings with their husbands, not that they do not have them. Some husbands are clueless. I gave a long response to this outlining my wifes life history but pushed the wrong button somehow and lost it Maybe that was for the best . You are wrong and insult my wife, and her strength and independence Was a tomboy with the nickname Jack Spratt as a young girl Left home aged 15. worked to support her college schooling from 15 to 17 worked in 3 capital cities Perth Sydney and Melbourne while living alone without family or close friends and still a young woman loved an older man who died in her arms from a heart attack not long before i met her (but dont worry i didn't grab her on the rebound or in grief I waited 5 years, wooing her and getting to know each other Came home and was invited to my 21st where i met her She was by then 29 Chose her own path as a married woman and is an equal partner in our marriage I am more emotional than she is although for different reasons and in a different way (I think she represses some emotions having been hurt by them in her past) SHe doesn't like emotional gestures, only practical ones eg I used to bring her flowers or chocolate and she asked for a new floor rug or similar Before she let me buy her an engagement ring Beautiful south American emerald about a quarter inch square which she lost while gardening I had to buy a dishwasher I cry in movies She never does We have both wept together at the loss of dearly loved ones Part of the reason i fell in love with her at first sight was because she was sitting on our swing under a pepper tree softly crying a the loss of her first ove I thought she needed a protector comforter and someone to love her completely. I was only part right She had no need of protection of any form but, like all of us, had a need to be loved and someone to love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Walker Posted January 24, 2021 #309 Share Posted January 24, 2021 22 minutes ago, Nuclear Wessel said: Was it Chuck? He goes into plenty of details re the situation. Apparently there are two different recollections of the event in question. He also apologised to our esteemed friend @Habitat That was a thread for the ages. Needs to be saved in some kind of an archive. A real treat. two difernt /alternative versions, both of which could be correct, depending on physical perspective of the event BUT the event happened and i was NOT lying as was categorically claimed Chrlz said no such event had ever occurred. He was wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted January 24, 2021 #310 Share Posted January 24, 2021 Just now, Mr Walker said: two difernt /alternative versions, both of which could be correct, depending on physical perspective of the event BUT the event happened and i was NOT lying as was categorically claimed Chrlz said no such event had ever occurred. He was wrong Thought you were taking a break? Can't resist, can you? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Walker Posted January 24, 2021 #311 Share Posted January 24, 2021 5 minutes ago, Will Do said: It sure is entertaining and I'm certain Mr Walker will agree Entertaining but very time consuming and really i have better things to do with my time it is 41 degrees C outside today so not too much else to do. Normally id be running the dogs about now 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Walker Posted January 24, 2021 #312 Share Posted January 24, 2021 2 minutes ago, Nuclear Wessel said: Thought you were taking a break? Can't resist, can you? True see post above, but i'm off now. Got my wife breakfast. Have to pick my sister in law up at 3pm from Tumby (40ks away) and will sit in front of the air conditioner, reading or watching a movie until then(now 11.30 am)Oh but do have to go to the supermarket to get stuff for tea before it closes at1pm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habitat Posted January 24, 2021 #313 Share Posted January 24, 2021 Interesting that Nuclear Weasel now appears to be "the leader of the pack" ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted January 24, 2021 #314 Share Posted January 24, 2021 Just now, Habitat said: Interesting that Nuclear Weasel now appears to be "the leader of the pack" ! Uh wha? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Sherapy Posted January 24, 2021 #315 Share Posted January 24, 2021 2 minutes ago, Nuclear Wessel said: Uh wha? Do not take the bait NW. I see Habitat is back trolling. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted January 24, 2021 #316 Share Posted January 24, 2021 1 minute ago, Sherapy said: Do not take the bait NW. I see Habitat is back trolling. I figured as much. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Sherapy Posted January 24, 2021 #317 Share Posted January 24, 2021 1 minute ago, Nuclear Wessel said: I figured as much. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Sherapy Posted January 24, 2021 #318 Share Posted January 24, 2021 19 minutes ago, Mr Walker said: I gave a long response to this outlining my wifes life history but pushed the wrong button somehow and lost it Maybe that was for the best . You are wrong and insult my wife, and her strength and independence Was a tomboy with the nickname Jack Spratt as a young girl Left home aged 15. worked to support her college schooling from 15 to 17 worked in 3 capital cities Perth Sydney and Melbourne while living alone without family or close friends and still a young woman loved an older man who died in her arms from a heart attack not long before i met her (but dont worry i didn't grab her on the rebound or in grief I waited 5 years, wooing her and getting to know each other Came home and was invited to my 21st where i met her She was by then 29 Chose her own path as a married woman and is an equal partner in our marriage I am more emotional than she is although for different reasons and in a different way (I think she represses some emotions having been hurt by them in her past) SHe doesn't like emotional gestures, only practical ones eg I used to bring her flowers or chocolate and she asked for a new floor rug or similar Before she let me buy her an engagement ring Beautiful south American emerald about a quarter inch square which she lost while gardening I had to buy a dishwasher I cry in movies She never does We have both wept together at the loss of dearly loved ones Part of the reason i fell in love with her at first sight was because she was sitting on our swing under a pepper tree softly crying a the loss of her first ove I thought she needed a protector comforter and someone to love her completely. I was only part right She had no need of protection of any form but, like all of us, had a need to be loved and someone to love Indeed, you are a lucky man to have had her by your side all these years. Take care of her. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habitat Posted January 24, 2021 #319 Share Posted January 24, 2021 Have we established the bona fides of Mr Walker's whale yet ? Or is still suspect of being a figment of his imagination, or a giant plastic inflatable ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted January 24, 2021 #320 Share Posted January 24, 2021 3 minutes ago, Habitat said: Have we established the bona fides of Mr Walker's whale yet ? Or is still suspect of being a figment of his imagination, or a giant plastic inflatable ? 49 minutes ago, Nuclear Wessel said: That was a thread for the ages. Needs to be saved in some kind of an archive. A real treat. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habitat Posted January 24, 2021 #321 Share Posted January 24, 2021 How does that answer my question, seriously a bunch of people still trying to disprove that whale story, when I confirmed it with locals who would know, just pathetic ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted January 24, 2021 #322 Share Posted January 24, 2021 1 minute ago, Habitat said: How does that answer my question, seriously a bunch of people still trying to disprove that whale story, when I confirmed it with locals who would know, just pathetic ! Do you have anything useful to add? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habitat Posted January 24, 2021 #323 Share Posted January 24, 2021 Just now, Nuclear Wessel said: Do you have anything useful to add? I sure do, CATHEXSIS, look up the meaning of it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHaYap Posted January 24, 2021 #324 Share Posted January 24, 2021 1 minute ago, Nuclear Wessel said: Do you have anything useful to add? Think 'old worn sock' ~ 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted January 24, 2021 #325 Share Posted January 24, 2021 Just now, Habitat said: I sure do, CATHEXSIS, look up the meaning of it OK. I ask again. Do you have anything useful to add? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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