Grim Reaper 6 Posted October 24, 2021 #301 Share Posted October 24, 2021 On 10/24/2021 at 1:18 AM, Sherapy said: Grieving is a process and hers is complicated by unbearable loss in a short time. My heart goes out to her and that she is sharing is a good thing. I am glad she feels safe with us. Very well said, and you are certainly right I also believe your right in your comments above! Your a wonderful human being, I have never forgotten what you have done for me when I was down. You may not remember but I never forget positive things people have done for me! Peace! 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grim Reaper 6 Posted October 24, 2021 #302 Share Posted October 24, 2021 (edited) 17 minutes ago, XenoFish said: Most of the time I find you annoying. Just being honest. There is something about you that grinds my gears. So do me a favor and do not attribute any form of optimism or positive reinforcement that I might post to something you pretend you've done. Okay, are we clear? Good, back on ignore you go. We are certainly eye to eye on this, but this is where we are also different the comments I make are consistent. I don't switch the way I think or act from day to day, and I also hold no grudges. There are many ways I could respond to your comments, but let me be very clear. I do not immolate your behaviour in anyway, and I am pretending to do nothing. But since we are being honest I do pity you more than any other forum member, and it is obvious you need professional help, and your negative response to my comments above only proves that even more! Edited October 24, 2021 by Manwon Lender Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted October 24, 2021 #303 Share Posted October 24, 2021 This thread had a good run. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XenoFish Posted October 24, 2021 #304 Share Posted October 24, 2021 32 minutes ago, Manwon Lender said: We are certainly eye to eye on this, but this is where we are also different the comments I make are consistent. I don't switch the way I think or act from day to day, and I also hold no grudges. There are many ways I could respond to your comments, but let me be very clear. I do not immolate your behaviour in anyway, and I am pretending to do nothing. But since we are being honest I do pity you more than any other forum member, and it is obvious you need professional help, and your negative response to my comments above only proves that even more! You think that's negative. You haven't been here since I joined. You got the soft paws. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grim Reaper 6 Posted October 25, 2021 #305 Share Posted October 25, 2021 (edited) 22 minutes ago, XenoFish said: You think that's negative. You haven't been here since I joined. You got the soft paws. No your right I have not, but I do remember when I joined in 2019. You were one of the top members on this forum, I think most members did not realize that your down attitude was actually a reality. But since I became a member your popularity has slowly fallen and continues to do so. What ever issue you have also effected my younger brother, and like him you will try to make others feel down because you feel down. There is a lot of negativity on this forum that stems from many different issues. But, even in the middle of positive threads you will inject your negative comments to try and bring others down to your level. My comments in my last post to you were sincere and honest I hold no grudges against anyone here and I can honestly say I don't hate or even dislike you. I may get angry in a conversation, but later that day or the next it's all water under the bridge fir me. When I lose my cool and respond negatively to someone, I regret it because I don't like that part of myself I have a mean and angry nature that I am trying to change. That's the best I can do, but soft isn't something I am not or have ever been and while I may appear to be soft there were people around this world who found out how soft I really am but unfortunately they can no longer tell anyone about it and that's the one thing I hate most about myself. Edited October 25, 2021 by Manwon Lender 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Walker Posted October 25, 2021 #306 Share Posted October 25, 2021 1 minute ago, Manwon Lender said: No your right I have not, but I do remember when I joined in 2019. You were one of the top members on this forum, I think most members did not realize that your down attitude was actually a reality. But since I became a member your popularity has slowly fallen and continues to do so. What ever issue you have also effected my younger brother, and like him you will try to make others feel down because you feel down. There is a lot of negativity on this forum that stems from many different issues. But, even in the middle of positive threads you will inject your negative comments to try and bring others down to your level. My comments in my last post to you were sincere and honest I hold no grudges against anyone here and I can honestly say I don't hate or even dislike you. I may get angry in a conversation, but later that day or the next it's all water under the bridge fir me. When I lose my cool and respond negatively to someone, I regret it because I don't like that part of myself I have a mean and angry nature that I am trying to change. That's the best I can do, but soft isn't something I am not or have ever been and while I may appear to be soft there were people around this world who found out how soft I really am but unfortunately they can no longer tell anyone about it. I like this post, but i hesitate to attribute negative intentions to Xeno's posts. I've always just thought he was terribly depressed (and angry) with everything. (including himself and anyone who tries to help him ) That has to influence all a person's relationships and posts. ie I never feel he is being deliberately hostile to me to make himself feel better; just that he hasn't worked out yet how to help himself. It helps me appreciate just how lucky I am, and have been all my life. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted October 25, 2021 #307 Share Posted October 25, 2021 (edited) 25 minutes ago, Mr Walker said: I like this post, but i hesitate to attribute negative intentions to Xeno's posts. I've always just thought he was terribly depressed (and angry) with everything. (including himself and anyone who tries to help him ) That has to influence all a person's relationships and posts. ie I never feel he is being deliberately hostile to me to make himself feel better; just that he hasn't worked out yet how to help himself. It helps me appreciate just how lucky I am, and have been all my life. Now, we don't agree on much of anything, but I don't think you're wrong in what you're saying at all. Just my $0.02 Edited October 25, 2021 by Nuclear Wessel 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XenoFish Posted October 25, 2021 #308 Share Posted October 25, 2021 (edited) I mean I've had threads dedicated to hating me. Nothing new to me. Good luck Sherapy. Knew I should've jumped ship. Edited October 25, 2021 by XenoFish 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Nuclear Wessel Posted October 25, 2021 #309 Share Posted October 25, 2021 1 minute ago, XenoFish said: I mean I've had threads dedicated to hating me. Nothing new to me. Good luck Sherapy. Knew I should've jumped ship. Nobody in this thread hates you. I certainly don't. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XenoFish Posted October 25, 2021 #310 Share Posted October 25, 2021 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Nuclear Wessel said: Nobody in this thread hates you. I certainly don't. I mean that literally. A thread was created that got deleted, it was dedicated to basically complaining about me. Some think it's weird when I'm nice. Others think somethings wrong when I'm not. It's like a person isn't supposed to change. Anyways, I'm done. Sorry for whatever I've done and I honestly hope the thread gets back on track. Edited October 25, 2021 by XenoFish 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grim Reaper 6 Posted October 25, 2021 #311 Share Posted October 25, 2021 6 hours ago, Mr Walker said: I like this post, but i hesitate to attribute negative intentions to Xeno's posts. I've always just thought he was terribly depressed (and angry) with everything. (including himself and anyone who tries to help him ) That has to influence all a person's relationships and posts. ie I never feel he is being deliberately hostile to me to make himself feel better; just that he hasn't worked out yet how to help himself. It helps me appreciate just how lucky I am, and have been all my life. Mr. Walker you are certainly entitled to your opinion, and my friend I would say or do nothing to change that. But, I will cut this short because I do not want to be disrespectful to anyone, I can honestly say, however I get no emotional charge or feeling of worth by intentionally trying to harm or demean others mentally or verbally. I will say this inclosing, I say exactly what I mean and if I were face to face with anyone here my response would not change. I wish everyone would take a moment before they type and think would I make these same comments to another persons face, because I simply believe that is how people should conduct themselves online maybe I am just old fashion. Peace and thanks for your view! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grim Reaper 6 Posted October 25, 2021 #312 Share Posted October 25, 2021 (edited) 6 hours ago, Nuclear Wessel said: Nobody in this thread hates you. I certainly don't. Like I said in a previous post I certainly don't, and I also hold no grudges nor do I following people to other threads to create drama that is not my thing. I have not been disrespectful to anyone here, but I also realize this thread and every other thread isn't about me I am only one free electron moving through cyber space and offering my view. I fully realize that I am no more important the next free electron offering theirs. Peace. Edited October 25, 2021 by Manwon Lender 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Sherapy Posted October 25, 2021 Author #313 Share Posted October 25, 2021 (edited) 12 hours ago, Mr Walker said: I like this post, but i hesitate to attribute negative intentions to Xeno's posts. I've always just thought he was terribly depressed (and angry) with everything. (including himself and anyone who tries to help him ) That has to influence all a person's relationships and posts. ie I never feel he is being deliberately hostile to me to make himself feel better; just that he hasn't worked out yet how to help himself. It helps me appreciate just how lucky I am, and have been all my life. FYI, Anger is a symptom of depression. Also, you don’t like people speculating about you so don’t do it with Xeno either. The situation was between Manwon and Xeno and they are finding their own way with each other., let’s leave them to that. Let’s get back on topic. Thank you. Edited October 25, 2021 by Sherapy 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Sherapy Posted October 25, 2021 Author #314 Share Posted October 25, 2021 12 hours ago, XenoFish said: I mean I've had threads dedicated to hating me. Nothing new to me. Good luck Sherapy. Knew I should've jumped ship. Xeno, I have no issue with you and want you to be a part of this thread if something piques your interest, if it doesn’t that is fine too. But your voice is welcomed here too. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Sherapy Posted October 25, 2021 Author #315 Share Posted October 25, 2021 5 hours ago, Manwon Lender said: Like I said in a previous post I certainly don't, and I also hold no grudges nor do I following people to other threads to create drama that is not my thing. I have not been disrespectful to anyone here, but I also realize this thread and every other thread isn't about me I am only one free electron moving through cyber space and offering my view. I fully realize that I am no more important the next free electron offering theirs. Peace. This is a quality about you that I like, not holding grudges. Thank you for your grace and class on handling conflict. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Desertrat56 Posted October 25, 2021 #316 Share Posted October 25, 2021 On 10/24/2021 at 5:19 AM, godnodog said: Well I've replied several times to some of your comments but you didn't replied back I don't remember you replying to my comments. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Desertrat56 Posted October 25, 2021 #317 Share Posted October 25, 2021 On 10/24/2021 at 5:26 AM, docyabut2 said: I do have a hard time in what to believe. If reincarnation is true there is no heaven and my loves ones that died on one day and born again the same day ,life on earth is just a recycling."( We all have different perspcetives about what reincarnation means. It seems that the reincarnation is not usually instant. And not everyone reincarnates. I think also, that heaven is subject to interpretation. Some want the pearly gates and St. Peter's list to determine if you get to go sit and sing for the angels, others want some paradise where any whim they have is granted. And some think there is no heaven, but rather a reuniting with the "all that is" that we stepped away from to have an experience as a human on planet earth. What is your belief about heaven? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Desertrat56 Posted October 25, 2021 #318 Share Posted October 25, 2021 On 10/24/2021 at 5:19 AM, godnodog said: Well I've replied several times to some of your comments but you didn't replied back What thread did you reply to some of my comments? This looks like the first reply you have made in this thread so what are you referring to? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XenoFish Posted October 25, 2021 #319 Share Posted October 25, 2021 1 hour ago, Sherapy said: Xeno, I have no issue with you and want you to be a part of this thread if something piques your interest, if it doesn’t that is fine too. But your voice is welcomed here too. I appreciate the encouragement, but I'm tired. Had enough of people for awhile. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
godnodog Posted October 25, 2021 #320 Share Posted October 25, 2021 1 hour ago, Desertrat56 said: What thread did you reply to some of my comments? This looks like the first reply you have made in this thread so what are you referring to? was kidding mate :P 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Desertrat56 Posted October 25, 2021 #321 Share Posted October 25, 2021 14 minutes ago, godnodog said: was kidding mate Oh, ok. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grim Reaper 6 Posted October 25, 2021 #322 Share Posted October 25, 2021 6 hours ago, Sherapy said: This is a quality about you that I like, not holding grudges. Thank you for your grace and class on handling conflict. Thanks my friend sorry for the disruption in your thread sincerely! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Sherapy Posted October 25, 2021 Author #323 Share Posted October 25, 2021 1 hour ago, Manwon Lender said: Thanks my friend sorry for the disruption in your thread sincerely! No need to be sorry. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grim Reaper 6 Posted October 25, 2021 #324 Share Posted October 25, 2021 5 minutes ago, Sherapy said: No need to be sorry. Yes there is while my comments in your thread have been intended to add to it and be positive in nature, it seems that they were not viewed that way yesterday. By now I should know by experience who to post a comment to and who not to comment to. Even though I intended my comment to be positive and a compliment I suppose I did not communicate my intention properly so actually that entire disruption of your thread was my fault. Thanks for your kind and understanding reply, but I must take responsibility for my actions. I will be more careful in future replays or comments. Peace my friend hope you and your family are safe, happy, and doing well! 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Sherapy Posted October 25, 2021 Author #325 Share Posted October 25, 2021 6 minutes ago, Manwon Lender said: Yes there is while my comments in your thread have been intended to add to it and be positive in nature, it seems that they were not viewed that way yesterday. By now I should know by experience who to post a comment to and who not to comment to. Even though I intended my comment to be positive and a compliment I suppose I did not communicate my intention properly so actually that entire disruption of your thread was my fault. Thanks for your kind and understanding reply, but I must take responsibility for my actions. I will be more careful in future replays or comments. Peace my friend hope you and your family are safe, happy, and doing well! I truly appreciate your honesty and your empathy. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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