Need Advice Please

[NoahJaymes]

RecentlyI have been experiencing weird things. I sometimes can sense things, such as i can see things before they happen such as deja vu but i know its not that. Sorry that this is going to be a long pst but I need some input fast because my friend is kinda freaking out. Recently I been dealing with depression. It got close to the point where I ended my own life. However, Im still here and taking medication to get by it. Im in the army and taking 45 days of leave and about to get out of the army. I been spending a majority of my leave at my girlfriends house. Anyway, i was alone sleepin in her bed when i felt as though her dog jumped on the bed and walked along side of me and when i went to look he wasnt there nor anywhere in the room. I just thought maybe It was in my dream or something but I didnt say anything about it to anyone. Then my girlfriend was telling me when she was sleeping and I was gone for the night that she felt like her dog nudged the bed like he was about to jump up but again he wasnt in there. She said she felt as though she couldnt move like something was holding her down at the time. Thats when i told her about my incident. She started to freak out. We were laying in bed the other night and she seriously started freaking out like starin over at the bathroom door hiding under the covers almost in tears and literally shaking so I had to go close the door. Even then she was still scared. She said she sees flashes of certain things such as letters, three letters she as seen so far are "A" "S" and "K"..which spell out ASK. Not really sure what to think about that then she told me about a dream she had that kinda freaked her out. I never told her about my dream the previous night but she managed to have the same exact dream as i did. We started taking pictures based off my knowledge and we got a lot of interesting shots. I suggested they were dust orbs however, we took shots of me, and then her in the same spot at different times. In my pictures there were orbs, in her shots there were nothing.

Then last night it started getting a little more weird. We were sleeping and i had my arm around her and i felt a tap on my arm, i never felt her move and i look up, nothing. I lay back down and i felt another tap. I woke her up and asked her if she tapped me and she said no. Then today we were at walmart and we were standing there, no one was around and she looks at me and asked if i just tapped her "Butt". I said no then i looked around and seen no one else even close to us. She was hell bent that I did but i know for a fact i didnt because I was looking at something else. Then tonight we were in the game room at her house and i went to take a shot at pool and I felt as though someone tapped my butt, nobody was around me, she was acrossed the room. So then we started talking more about what I know and what she has been through and so on. She said she has sensed stuff before such as when she was 9, she had a dream that her grandpa was waving goodbye on clouds going up to the attic, then the next day she was told he died earlier that night.

I have had a lot of experiences in many instances where I can feel something or sense something. The same for her. She told me that they have become stronger since we have been hanging out. The dreams didnt start till after "sorry to get disgusting" but we had sex. She and I are always on the same wave length, like we can read each others minds, she finishes my sentences before I do, I am thinkin something and she asks what when its not apparent that im thinking. Sometimes we go to speak and its the same exact sentence or word. We have a lot in common and we get along so well its crazy. I feel so close to her and she feels the same way. Do you possibly think that with us both having some sort of sense that its heightened with us being around one another? Also, is it possible that maybe I passed some of my senses to her when we became intimate? Or vice versa? If she became pregnant and would her senses be even higher than normal by carrying a child? Just some of the things thats on our minds.

Also, before I forget, tonight when we were in the game room she said she felt as though something was standing behind her pulling her back and i went to give her a hug because she was crying and her back was cold. She was wearing a sweatshirt and no fan or air conditioning was on.

Thanks in advance

[Bella-Angelique]

I strongly suggest a move out of that building as soon as possible.

I do not think it is all in your minds as the progressive pattern is recognizable.

Leave and put this behind you.

What is in that building is most likely something you do not want to know more about than you already do.

Sincerely.

[paulajoleonard]

Whoo- pretty scary.. I think there are soul mates in this world and maybe you two need to be together (or your hightened senses) for the greater good. I have a feeling that there is a message in this for both of you, whether it be good or bad-- follow your feelings. Who am I kidding LOL- I don't possess one ounce of open awarness but I do believe that everyone has a spiritual guide or angel that help lead them through your path or mission of life. Doesn't sound like this spirit is trying to hurt you but be a tease. I hope things pan out and you figure out who (past family member or pet) is trying to get your attention and for what reason. I believe there is a reason behind all actions. Play detective- maybe.

My husband just recently went through a weird experience. I posted it under this forum titled- spiritual sacrifice in the Sierra Nevadas. We see life with a whole new theory.

Hope things work out...

[coldethyl]

I just posted this in a different thread, but I'm going to post it here too, just in case you've never heard of it and in case it could possibly be of any help.

Here's a link about infrasound.

And here's some more info:

'Computer specialist Vic Tandy from Coventry University always considered all legends about ghosts were nonsense and never took them seriously. Until one night when he spent his evening working late in a laboratory when he suddenly broke into a cold sweat. Tandy felt somebody was watching him. He felt the hairs on the back of his neck rise. Then ‘something’ assumed a grey material form, crossed the room and approached the scientist. In the vague outline Tandy could discern legs, arms and fog where the figure must have a head; there was a dark spot in the centre of the fog, which might be a mouth. In an instant, the vision disappeared in the air without leaving a trace. As soon as Tandy recovered after the first fear and shock he started reasoning as a scientist: he started looking for the cause of the unusual phenomenon. Hallucinations might have been the easiest way to explain the phenomenon. On the other hand, he didn't use drugs, was moderate in drinking alcohol and coffee. As for weird forces, the scientist strongly disregarded them. So, Tandy decided to look for ordinary physical factors that might explain the phenomenon. Soon Tandy managed to discover the factors quite accidentally. His hobby, fencing, helped him with it. Some time after the scientist saw the "ghost" he brought his rapier to the laboratory to set it right before a forthcoming fencing tournament. Suddenly he felt the blade gripped and it started vibrating if some invisible hand touched it. "Some invisible hand" might have been suggested as a probable explanation of the phenomenon by ordinary people but not by a scientist. That is why Tandy suddenly arrived at a conclusion that the moving of the blade was resonance oscillations caused with sound waves. This is just exactly the same when we hear tea services clink in a buffet when music is thundering in the room. But in fact, it was actually very quiet in the laboratory. To be sure, Tandy measured the sound in the laboratory with special apparatuses. He was surprised to see that the sound in the room was unimaginable; the sound waves were very low, although the scientist couldn't hear them. That was infrasound. It took the scientist a lot of time to find out the source of the infrasound; it was caused by a recently set ventilator in the air conditioner. As soon as the air conditioner was switched off, the blade stopped vibrating.

For many years seamen were pondering over the mystery of "flying Dutchmen", ships that wandered around the seas without crews on board. The ships were in good repair, but there were no people on board at all. Where have they gone? Well-known vessel Maria Celeste was the last of such ships; that was a wonderful schooner noticed by some other vessel in the ocean. When the vessel approached Maria Celeste and its seamen entered the schooner, they were astonished to find hot dinner and entries recently made by the captain in the ship journal. There were absolutely no people on board of Maria Celeste. They disappeared but no traces could be found. The mystery was unsolved for decades, until it became clear that infrasound could be the explanation of the phenomenon. As it turned out, infrasound of seven hertz emitted by ocean waves under some definite conditions is terrible for people: they may go mad and throw themselves overboard to save their lives. Tandy supposed that his night vision might be connected with infrasound as well. When he measured the infrasound in the laboratory, the showing was 18.98 hertz, just exactly the frequency under which a human eyeball starts resonating. So, sound waves made Tandy's eyeballs resonate and produced an optical illusion: he saw a figure that didn't exist in fact. Further investigation of the phenomenon revealed that sound waves of this low frequency may appear rather frequently under natural conditions. Infrasound arises when strong gusts of wind clash with chimneys or towers. These heavy basses penetrate even through very thick walls. Such sound waves start rumbling in tunnel-shaped corridors. This is the reason why people often come across ghosts in long serpentine corridors of ancient castles looking like tunnels. Strong winds are quite typical of Great Britain. Tandy published the results of his research in the magazine of the Society of Physical Researches. The Society is working to find reasonable explanations to paranormal phenomena. This is quite understandable that professional "ghost busters" got enthusiastic with Tandy's idea. Leading parapsychologists of Great Britain think this idea will help give explanations to many of mysterious phenomena. However, other scientists call the idea into question. Physicists studying effect of infrasound upon the human body say that volunteers participating in their experiments complain of weariness, high pressure in the eyes and in the ears, but never mention hallucinations or ghosts.'

[bLu3 de 3n3rgy]

Right my feeling on this is it's a child spirit trying to get your attention or drawn/attached to you as a couple. I don't think there is anything negitive at all about what you are experiencing, just your own fears being aroused or sensing any fear the child holds. What are in the dreams you both have, I think it's worth looking at them for clues.

Do you possibly think that with us both having some sort of sense that its heightened with us being around one another? Also, is it possible that maybe I passed some of my senses to her when we became intimate? Or vice versa? If she became pregnant and would her senses be even higher than normal by carrying a child? Just some of the things thats on our minds.

Yes absolutely, people who are on the same wavelength can spark each other off, being in the company of another sensitive can increase and amplify both your sensitivities making you more receptive and open to spirit. Group energies that are in tune are always going to be stronger. I see you have your own investigation group, you will find that over time as you and your group work together you will become better and more senstive and start picking up more, getting more from investigations for this same reason.

Is your GF preg?

[NoahJaymes]

Thanks guys, this was an email i wrote to Ghostweb trying to get answers a while back. So this was in june when this was written. However since then I have moved out into my own place and we are now just friends. She now sleeps with the lights on, calls me at 330am scared to hell. She woke up one morning with a hand print on her arm, "She has photographic evidence" My investigative team is going over there later sometime in the next few days to do a full blown investigation. Amber and I did research the area and the history of the house and past residents. The house was built in 1958. The area is near Ft. Bragg which as most of you know is an army installation. Fayetteville has one of the highest crime rates in the state. Rumor has it, although not proven, that someone did die in that house. I been busting my butt trying to get information but everyone I talk to thinks im crazy.

I will add some pictures here shortly as soon as I talk to her. I dont wanna link them to my site, for the sake of sneaking one by to get attention to my site

PS. She is not pregnant and the dream was simple yet consisted of this. My dream...I was walking to get a drink in the kitchen, I noticed a lady sitting on the couch. I didnt think anything of it, then as I walked by to go back to bed I was drawn to her. She was an older lady, smoking and just sitting staring at me. "Im getting chills just writing about it". Since I am colorblind, yet I realize you can not see colors in your dream anyway, its just based on assumption. However, she was wearing a stripped sweater, older style clothes. I blinked and then she was gone. Its like she was trying to tell me something but I dont know what it was.

Ambers dream.. She was walking through a trailor, she noticed an older lady sitting on a CHAIR, wearing a green stripped sweater, smoking and didnt say a word. Just sat and stared. Amber woke up and told me the dream and thats when i told her mine and we both were like :O:O. I never told her anything affiliated with my dream. Mainly because there was no major reason to do so.

UPDATE: The other night I was sleeping. I was dreaming what I always dream about, "Playing baseball" lol, anyway then all a sudden I heard in my conscious amber calling my name saying help. Then i was off of the field and as much as i hate to say this...right next to her in her dream. She was panicing and then for some odd reason i woke up in a hard sweat, i called and made sure everything was alright. She said yeah, but later on she told me she felt really bad about something. I asked what and she said the night I had that dream, she made out with someone and she felt guilty about it. Interesting tidbit right there.

MAJOR UPDATE: I keep remembering as I go and i dont wanna keep making new posts. Hopefully you reread this. Anyway, Amber asked me yesterday, If i knew a Jennifer and she said three letters in the last name. WEI, At first I was like well, I know a lot of Jennifers, my moms name is Jennifer for starters. She said she had a dream that her and her brother were on a missing poster along with this Jennifer WEI... girl. The more I thought about it, then It hit me. Jennifer Weiss that I went to school with. She died in a car accident when she was 16. Amber described exactly what she was wearing the night of her accident to a T. Its crazy I know, and most of you are probably like what is this dude babbling about. Being an investigator, I would never make anything up. I find this crazy and my theories on a lot of aspects are now changing. At first when she told me all this stuff that she could sense things. I was like yeah ok, t hats like a medium, which i dont really believe in. Now Im not so sure.

Edited July 28, 2006 by FGHS.Founder

[bLu3 de 3n3rgy]

Might have something to do with a guy in a wheelchair called robert as well

[NoahJaymes]

Might have something to do with a guy in a wheelchair called robert as well

lol huh

[Loonboy]

Hi guys.

Your experiences seem to be a mixture of phenomena: physical experiences, psychic experiences and, I hate to say it but I will, hysteria.

I'll explain the latter first. I believe that the events and experiences you are having and have had are causing an upward spiral of anxiety, which will get the better of you, if you're not too careful. I have had my own experiences, and it's tricky to keep a lid on your reaction, especially when an event is sudden and unexpected. I caution you about this first, as you mentioned depression, which is a slick and insidious beast. The only thing I could suggest for a way of dealing with experiences that frighten or upset you or those you love, is to try and step back and be objective about them - don't label them as bad/evil/wrong etc. but rather consider them as just things. When you can be objective about something, you're in a better position to deal with it.

Your physical experiences seem to be the outcome of the desire to communicate by whatever entity or force that is around you. Is it a ghost or a spirit, or is it something else? I'm not sure. If the thing wants to communicate with you, then I would suggest you try answering it. When it prods you, say hello to it. Sounds silly, but you're acknowledging it's presence and dealing with it as an equal. This can go a long way both to appeasing it and also minimising your fear towards it. Ask it questions, ask what it wants, smile when you feel it's presence and greet it. If it wanted to hurt anyone, it probably would have done so by now. It hasn't, so it means no harm.

To be honest, I think it just wants to tell you something.

Your psychic experiences may be a mix of what your own abilities are picking up about your situation, and also the entity's efforts to communicate. It will use whatever avenues it has to get the message through to you. Don't resist or be afraid, listen to it and probe it. You may benefit.

Lastly, if you ever do feel threatened by it, tell it to go - speak out loud - say you do not welcome it in your life/home and you are sending it away. It will go.

Hope this helps.

[RX-7]

what goes around comes around I guess

[mr.5]

i have had quite few incounters with ghost i think he or she is just leting u know it ther